MY COUSINS FIANCE KEEPS CALLING ME AND ASKING ME TO GO OUT TO DINNER WITH HIM AND HAVE SEX AND ALL THIS OTHER STUFF!IM 14 AND HES LIKE 27....HOW DO I TELL THIS TO MY COUSIN WITHOUT MAKING HER THINK THAT IM MAKING IT UP?HE ALWAYS CALLS AND ASKS NASTY QUESTIONS AND IS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS TO DO TO ME...THEY ARE GETTING MARRIED REALLY SOON TOO...
2006-08-15 07:30:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
but im cursed with a cell phone with no voice recorder or speaker phone
2006-08-15 07:47:29 · update #1
Tell your cousin, if you need proof of what he is doing have a family member listen in on a conversation, or record it. If her fiance is trying to cheat with you he probably has cheated other times. What he is doing to you is illegal, and can be considered sexual abuse,
YOU NEED TO TELL SOME ONE SO THAT HE CANT HURT YOU OR ANYONE ELSE ANYMORE!
2006-08-15 07:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by paganrosemama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every phone has a Voice Recorder, except for a select few. When the scumbag calls, ask him to wait a second. Then hit the button to bring up the recorder. Press play, andtalk to him. Then confront your cousin and tell her that her fiance is a predator and is trying to have sex with you. If she doesn't believe you, then play the recording. While this may hurt her to hear this, it is also the only way that you can get her to realize the truth.
2006-08-15 15:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost every cell phone has a voice recorder. Record the convo and let your cousin listen to it. You won't need to try to convince her anymore after that.
2006-08-15 14:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your answering machine allow you to record calls? If so it wouldn't hurt for you to have that as proof in case your cousin doesn't believe you. Even with a tape I would try confronting your cousin first without making her listen to it. Then if she does believe you you don't have to make it any more painful for her than you have to. But if she doesn't believe you ... he sounds like a creep who needs to be exposed before your cousin makes a huge mistake.
2006-08-15 14:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when he's away, then call him and ask him "what about dinner?" or something while she's there. Just go along with the conversation, put it on speaker phone. She'll believe you then.
2006-08-15 14:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Risika Desaunt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your parents. #1 this man should been in jail for trying to solicit sex from you. I had a similar situation when I was 12 but it was my friends brother who was 26. Please tell your parents what is going on. If this man has asked these things of you, he is a pedophile and is likely to act on it. He could seriously harm you. If you love your cousin she needs to know. If she marries this man and has children he could harm them also.
2006-08-15 14:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Paula B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cell phone? Home phone? Next time scumbucket calls put him on speaker phone so everyone can enjoy.
2006-08-15 14:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by jrr_hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to meet you in a public place put aa recorder in your pocket! Tell her she planss on spending the rest of her life with this scum and he is hitting on u and your only 14 still young and innocent he is a predator!
2006-08-15 14:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by aquaris01975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but a tape recorder and put it by your celly thats just sick.
reprt it to your cousin then if it gets bad tell the police
2006-08-15 16:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him e-mail you the stuff he want to tell you especially about the sex part, show your cousin the e-mail and tell her about the phone calls then confront him immediately
2006-08-15 15:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by tiara girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋