not to be disgusting i just dont know what to do and dont know what it's going to feel like is what im scared the most about so girls who have done it before tell me if i should or not !!!
2006-08-15 07:27:25 · 31 answers · asked by Jerry L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't want to, Don't.
Plain & simple.
2006-08-15 07:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by weddrev 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your husband really wants to do it, then you should. It will make him happy and that should make you happy. Happy marriages are lasting marriages. Use lots of lubrication, I suggest k-y jelly or Astral glide(both can be bought at Walgreens for a very reasonable price). Also when you are in the process try to relax. The more relaxed you are the less it will hurt. Its going to hurt a little at first but if you relax not as much. If you drink alcohol have a drink or two to help you loosen up and feel more relaxed and less scared. Tell your man to take it slow and easy just a little at a time until you get used to it, oh yeah and before you begin you should have a verbal agreement with him before any of this ever takes place that if it hurts you too much then he has to stop.
2006-08-15 14:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
advise: if you decide to let him i would do a few things... one.. have lots of lube, 2- be very horny and make sure to keep your fingers on your clit, for this is the only way u can stay arroused and allow him to get more thenone hump on you. This is hard ofr some girls to open up to. b.c. the pain can easly turn u off, if u fallow my advised u may become to love in the butthole, but if u rush it.. u may never want it again. Most men try to go to fast, tell your b.f. to go slow, and if u say stop, he must obay.. too fast too quick will ruin this option for life. I would suggest to wait till your a little older so u still have a hole to discover.
2006-08-15 14:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by MISS PIMPIN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It made my wife have violent orgasms. Have regular oral and vaginal sex before to get in the mood even if you don't climax. BE SURE TO USE PLENTY OF K-Y LUBRICANT on HIM and YOU.
There is no such thing as too much! Rear entry is the most comfortable.
YOU MUST MAKE HIM AGREE TO STOP IF YOU SAY SO
Problem is that the sphincter muscle will eventually get stretched and you may have incontinence problems and he will have to fantasize after that, but if he loves you he WILL stop.If he fantasizes and you never try, chances are he might find a woman who is willing.
2006-08-15 14:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by DLW 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal and we both know. I am a man and it seems to me that earlier he is been deprived of p***y by his grlfnd and he
is used to; to the same thing. You should treat him well so that
he should feel good about himself and you and try to make him
understand with your actions that you belong to him and you will love to see him in p****y and there you enjoy the most. If you love him, take care of him he won't disappoint u for long, as we know marriage is a life long thing and all this should end sooner or latter.
2006-08-15 14:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by VJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you if you should do it or not, you need to come to that decision on your own.
If anal sex is something you'd like to explore then I say go for it, if you're not interested then you need to sit down with your hubby and let him know that.
In any case, if you decide to give it a try make sure you use lots of lubrication! And don't forget to relax.
2006-08-15 14:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by bluesie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say it feels just like taking a big dump. Just that the dump never comes out, its stuck in and out. It hurts and it is very unhealthy. Infection can come because of feces. The anal is not clean. He will be the one to get an infection if he doesnt use a condom.
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2006-08-16 11:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him do it, it'll probably feel good since the butthole is the best pleasurable place for males and females
2014-03-19 04:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's his story, anal is for two eaches own but as for me no way it's just unhealthy and if your not into it then never let anyone pressure you into it, it hurts and it's just not nice and maybe you should do a little research on your guy most guys are cool when you say no but i find a persistent guy needs to be checked on you know make sure he not on the down low
2006-08-15 14:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, my girlfriend said if she can stick something up my butt the same size as me, then I can put it in her butt. So I dont think it will be happening any time soon.
2006-08-15 14:40:03 · answer #11 · answered by Nate 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋