not to be disgusting i just dont know what to do and dont know what it's going to feel like is what im scared the most about so girls who have done it before tell me if i should or not !!!
2006-08-15 07:24:35 · 14 answers · asked by Jerry L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats a highly sexual request you should consider wondering not online...but with your doctor.
Keep in mind, the anus is a one way path and unless you've tested by inserting minor things to test it out (i.e. dildo) ... you should check with your physician to see if you are capable of doing so.
either way start simple and work up.
God! What a damn question to ask online.
2006-08-15 07:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by Corey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife loves anal. Just be sure to use a lot of water soluble lube, like K-Y, and go slowly when you first enter. After the anus expands and wraps around the penis and is properly lubed, it can be highly erotic, especially if you stimulate the clit/vag with a vibe. Never fails to get my wife to orgasm!
2006-08-15 07:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt like hell, make you sweat alot and have hot flashes. You won't be able to do the 2 right for a while or the complete opposite. If you decide to use lube. It's not a maybe it's a MUST!!!!
2006-08-15 07:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by DIAMOND69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your concerns. Tell him how afraid you are and work through it together. He likely won't want to do something that he feels will be damaging to you either mentally or physically. On the other hand...you may also try it slowly and cautiously. If at that time you feel too much pain...agree ahead of time that he won't proceed. (Personally...I believe it to be unnatural and prefer to do things more traditionally).
2006-08-15 07:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by peacemaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say don't do anything that you don't want to do. I hear it feels good after the initial pain. Some women like it. Talk to him about your fears and concerns and go from there.
2006-08-15 07:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend tried it and she said it hurt so bad!If I was you, and married I would try it,who knows you could end up loving it!Plus you are a married couple it'll probably spice things up....I say go 4 it!GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-08-15 07:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should try it. Make him get you to full arousel, right to the point of you reaching orgasm and then try it if it works great if it hurts and breaks your mood, quit.Use lube and have him go easy
2006-08-15 07:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him give it a try on you just make sure there is enough lubricant.
2006-08-15 07:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an alternative have him do anal finger penetration, it is somewhat of a compromise.
2006-08-15 07:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Koozie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i guess if he wanted you to -you could try it , but if you don't like it then tell him and tell him at least you did try it.
2006-08-15 09:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋