He never stands up for me! I have a stalker i went to court for (see my other question) and he doesnt say anything to the guy and balames me. A guy in a bar will grab my butt and he'll ask me what I did to prevoke him! AND when his friend is drunk he will sit there and say i have nice **** and try to squeeze them and think its funny, he sits there and says why did i wear a shirt like that! I stick up for him all the time if someone disrespects him but he doesnt do it for me. its like hes scared or a f***ing wuss or something! i mean imnot expecting him to sit there and fight everyone but if you were at a bar or a mall and someone grabbed your wifes butt and said she was hot would you say something???
2006-08-15 07:19:38 · 34 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I love him, but Its a turn off!
2006-08-15 07:25:24 · update #1
I don't think he's a wuss, I think there is a huge lack of respect in your marriage though.
My hubby respects me and expects others to do the same.
He wouldn't put up with this.
I think you two better get into counseling cause you sound very unhappy.
2006-08-15 07:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ragdollfloozie is Pensive! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need an old school man who has respect for his wife! I would never let anybody get away with any of these things even if they were a monster. I would stick up for you and be there for you if I were in his shoes. He does not act like a man at all in my honest opinion. lol
2006-08-15 07:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you handle the truth ? if no.. the answer is, Hes a non-violent person who thinks women are to blame for inviting such dis-respect. ( stop reading here if you dont want the truth )
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however, IF YOU CAN handle the truth..the answer is:
He dont love you! He enjoys what you give him...and he is mistaken -thinking the good time he has with you is "love". A MAN will never allow the one he honestly "loves"..be subjected to any form of dis-respect rude or crass comment he would protect your honor, defend your name and cherish you.
As a husband , he is to be a part of you - therefore anytime someone does such foul things to you..a part of him should be hurt as well. A man is in pain, when his woman hurts.
But since its not hurting him ....hes not a part of you. sorry
2006-08-15 08:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by billybadazz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would put an end to that kind of behavior quick, fast and in a hurry! That's totally not acceptable and you better make sure he knows that! It's degrading! He shouldn't want his friends to touch you or be near you! Tell him you deserve to be treated better and demand he does so!
2006-08-15 07:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are visiting the wrong places. No one grabs people in public like that where I live.
2006-08-15 07:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Answers1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Your husband is obviously used to the,"old stalker" stories and is comfortable in what's NOT happened as of yet...
Huge mistake lady...way out there...>>>>>>>>
get some professional assistance from a person who will "cancel" your worries away...
Then kick your husbands wimp a*s...
He's suppossed to protect,with his life...
His lady and or children...
Wimp a*s...
What's is his excuse going to be if ............
God Forbid....
The whack becomes aggressive???...
Thank You
2006-08-15 07:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,you need to make a decision,and i can not tell you what to do cause you are the only one who knows the answer.Just call friends or family to help you with that situation,maybe they would help you more by supporting you.good luck and do what you think its right:)
2006-08-15 07:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a different Bar.........the guy that grabbed your @$$ is the fool.....and stick up for yourself Slap someone next time they touch you, don't wait for someone else to do it!
2006-08-15 07:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should threaten to leave him or at lesat give him a nice yelling
OH I KNO!!!!!! u should hold out on him (not have sex with him until u get what u want) of course thats the god given right as a women to hold out on a man to get what they want. ill tell u it works every time which sucks cuz then the man is powerless
damn you women..................
2006-08-15 07:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by spiderk132 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats relle bad. u should explain to him just what u typed here, and tell him its not ur fault. lol if that doesnt work sue the people who do that for sexual harassment lol. just dont ask ur husband to be a witness, cause if ur husband says ur dressed for it ur kinda not gonna win.
2006-08-15 07:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by rjekqlw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋