2006-08-15 07:12:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Why would you want a bunch of strangers (who have no special qualifications) to make such a personal decision for you? If you're asking just to get encouragement to say "no" to going farther than you are comfortable with, then you have it. But please start talking with people you actually know and trust about the really important things in your life instead of going to people who probably are no better informed than you are and don't know anything about your life and circumstances.
2006-08-15 07:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start...I am a 20 year old female. (So i'm not that much older than you) I just got married. (he is 22) We are both young and both did some stupid stuff before we got married. It does make our relationship harder knowing that we've done stuff with other people. Think about it...not too long from now you might be getting married. Would it be hard for you to block out all of the things he has done previously? My husband and I are always being mean to eachother "you did that with such and such" "Well you toucher her there!" etc. I would say a kiss is fine...but don't put too much emotion into it or it'll go too far. Since you obviously have some doubts since you asked on here..you know where you stand and don't go past it!. Looking back to high school I wasted a lot of time on "boyfriends" and have nothing but guilt to show for it. I slacked off in some of my classes and pushed my friends away.
2006-08-15 14:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by hambone1985 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends, how old are you? there is a far cry between 13 and 19. and the maturity level between the 2 are miles and miles apart.
just remember, that you have to do what you feel comfortable with, and that all of your actions have consequences. if you chose to have sex with him, you could get pregnant, an std, or a bad name for yourself. are you ready to handle any of those?
you need to sit and talk to an adult about this. they will be able to give you better insight, and will be able to answer more questions for you. because contrary to most teenagers... you do not know everything.
keep a good head on your shoulders, and remember that you can say NO!
2006-08-15 14:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by rabika97 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a 33year old mother and I say you should go talk to your mother about this. How do you think your mother would feel if she knew you were asking questions like this here. I would be hurt and offended. And if you were my daughter I would chain you to the basement for asking this question.
2006-08-15 14:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breasts no further, you'll regret it. Wait until your twenty three, you'll be more comfortable. Take it easy and don't let him pressure you, you'd be surprised at the positive results if you don't go all the way right now. Good Luck
2006-08-15 14:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not do anything with your boyfriend but talk. You are not an adult and doing things we adults do is not meant for you teens. Just worry about finishing school.
2006-08-15 14:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing, dont have sex... one less girl that 14, 15, 16 years old and pregenent will be satisfing for me.
2006-08-15 14:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Erin the ROCKSTAR! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your talking about "sex" it's your decision. Just don't get caught. Now im not saying having sex at a young age is okay.
2006-08-15 14:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you ? kissing and holding hands ... that's all I would allow I'am a mom of 7yr. old and i don't know if i will even let her date untill she is 18 and then she can do what she wants when she's out of my house?
2006-08-19 14:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by littlebitty06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dont do nothin bad cuz you will regret it later i regret what happen with my first bf but not with my second bf
2006-08-15 16:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋