9 years ago when i was in my late teens i had every girls fantasy...........me in a bedsit with 11 men at the time i was single so this was not wronge,that night i basically let them all run through me and take me in every hole that was moist enough at the time i loved it and ****** and sucked the same men throughout the year,then i discoverd i was pregnant i was shocked at first but now love my little girl so much,recently she asked who her daddy is im lucky cuz i know its 1 of the 11 and still see them now and again,should i tell her the truth,please help
2006-08-15 07:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, do not tell her. She is to young to understand something like that and I think you really need to learn what right and wrong are if you think what you did was alright. It's to bad that It's your job to teach that child the difference between right and wrong because it's obvious you don't know yourself.
2006-08-15 07:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by mark-n-amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until she is emotionally mature enough to handle the fact that you had regular sex with so many men. Be prepared when you do tell her that you will be met with much anger and disappointment as well. For the time being...let her know that you understand her desire to know who her daddy is, but that there is much that she won't understand and you plan to tell her everything when she is older and can fully understand what happened.
2006-08-15 14:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by peacemaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad for you, and very mature to admit it.
Its a hard call, but i think you might need some closure first, do you still talk to these guys?
Maybe try and figure out how to get there DNA,
Maybe see a counsoler?
You don't want to mess with your daughters little head and give her the wrong answer..
2006-08-15 14:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by girlscanfishtoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously don't tell your daughter the truth that would mess her up trust me however you do need to get a paternity test with each man to find out who father's your child. Than after you find out you tell her the right answer that's all she needs to know. Good Luck!
2006-08-15 14:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the Maury Povich show with all 11 guys for the free DNA testing.
2006-08-15 14:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not. It's great your comfortable with your s-l-u-t-t-i-n-e-s-s, I admire that but don't reveal such a complex issue to your little one. The only way to know which one it was is to have paternity tests done. Good Luck!
2006-08-15 14:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YIKES! I really don't think that that is every girl's fantasy because I have never had it. But I wouldn't tell her the truth; she wouldn't respect you when she got older.
2006-08-15 14:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 14:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by ardgo2112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋