WE seperated cuz she found a # to a girl i was talking to in florida. i never did nothing with the girl but my ex thinks i slept with her when i visited florida. she says she couild never be wit me again cuz she will never be able to trust me yet we still have sex and hang out sometime like we hung out htis whole weeken, i gave her her first orgasm ever on friday night, we sexes all day saturday and did laundry, and on sunday we sexes b4 and after a nice day in the playground pushing her on swings and ate some food and took a nice long walk in central park. after all that she call me and says we should just be friends and she doesnt wanna mislead me, but when we chill we hold hands, kiss, i tell her i love her she tell me she loves me. what should i do? i stick around cause i feel like i have a chance to get her back but she keeps telling me no? whats going on? what should i do? do any ladies think i have a chance to get her back?
2006-08-15 06:27:30 · 26 answers · asked by kaine0ne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She tell me we can never be together again cause she will never be able to trust me but we still hang out like one or twice a month to go out or have sex or both. Whats the deal with that?
2006-08-15 07:10:43 · update #1
Dude, you are a FWB (Friend with Benefits). Why do you want a relationship with a person, who tells you that you will be nothing but a booty call to her.
Listen . . . does she tell you "I love you" first or do you say it first and she just says it back. From your information (Question and other info), it sound like the later happens . . . which means it is an automatic response - she doesn't love you but you are a good f*** and that is all.
My question to you is why do you want her? Is she your first . . . or is it because you can't really have her, you want her desperately. If she learns about this . . . she will be in a power position and your balls will be in her purse for the rest of your life.
My opinion . . . grow up and find someone new. Bang her from time to time when things get slow. And you should tell her this. Tell her find, we can be FWB . . . but I am going to look for someone who is willing to be more. After I find her . . . you are going to have to find another d*** to f***.
2006-08-21 10:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggested that you tell her how you feel that you want to be with her and that nothing happened in Florida. Which i still don't understand why you had the girls # from Florida when you had a girlfriend. No wonder she thinks you cheated on her I would too. Anyways I would tell her i can't keep on hang out with you and having sex with you and you don't want to be my girlfriend it is not right. You have feeling for her and you love her and she doesn't want to be with you then why should you put yourself though that. I would stop hang out with her, having sex with her so she can see what she is missing then maybe she will get back together with you.
2006-08-22 04:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by shortysonja7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you for sex. She has to be the most confused person I have ever heard about. This must be some sort of game or the other to her. You should really talk to her because not wanting to be with you is not wanting to be with you, not no meaning yes and yes meaning no. Yes is yes and no is no, there are no two ways about it. I know you love the girl but she sounds like a player.
2006-08-21 12:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh duh.....you were the last man in her life, therefore she feels comfortable to have sex with you! Only you and your ex know where your relationship will end up...even though you are not technically calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend...you still are in a sex based relationship! Either deal with this type of relationship or stop sleeping with her, and she how she responds!
2006-08-22 15:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why would you want her back? She seems like she is playing a mind f*ck with you. I would use the number to the girl in Florida and give her a call. At least you know you have options and deserve better.
2006-08-23 05:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by sweetcaraline_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a trust is broken, even if you didn't sleep with the other girl, that trust you shared is gone forever. Even if you get back together, it will never be the same as it was before.
2006-08-23 05:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Poetic Soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 07:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that you are being kept as a "booty call". What this does for her is excuse her behavior if she decides to make a go with someone else. In real words, she's using you until something better comes along.
2006-08-23 06:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! is NO! why can't people understand and accept that. Don't make youself appear to be desperate. Stop spending as much time with her, for starters that may help, occupy yourself with other people. If she comes around hey, good for you..........if not, life must go on.
2006-08-23 05:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds like she's keeping you on the back burner in case no one else comes along. Try not to talk to her for a couple weeks and see what she does.
2006-08-15 06:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋