i have a wonderful husband and everything is going good between us till yesterday (i know his password for messenger) so
messenger and use it sometimes so there was his friend that was playing a joke on him saying things not
good but i though
it was a girl (the screen name is of a girl) but his friend was on it and talking to him (like he was
the girl) so i really thought i was talking to her (girlfriend of my husbands friend) i called him later
and he explained to me everything and it wasnt a girl that was talking to him(it is his friend)
so i forgave him and til today i tried to log into my husbands screen name just to find out he changed his
password but without telling me!i called him and he tells me he changed his password because he
didnt like that his friend was playing games with me(he says he is afraid i will believe him and he will
lose me) so what would u do or think now? he even asked me to give his password now but isaid ididnt want it anymore-he is now on messenger but he is not saying hello or even talking to me. i am so sad now..
2006-08-15 06:24:23 · 4 answers · asked by jgirl572 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think he is waiting for me to call/talk to him first because he knows i always do that first..should i just wait for him or just call him? like i always do.
2006-08-15 06:34:57 · update #1
i meant to say should I just call him now? like I always do. or wait for him to call me first. i think he knows i will call him soon
2006-08-15 06:36:33 · update #2
You should have trusted him more than that. Don't hack into his stuff.
2006-08-15 06:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by cyber_music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed up. First, you violated his privacy by imitating him online. Second, you didn't trust him when you should have. Third, you made it worse when you refused his offer of his password again. You made a big deal of this, being petulant, jealous and hurt when he didn't do anything wrong; you did. Repeatedly. Since messenger is the focus of his hurt, it's the place he would avoid with you the most.
You have to make it up to him. You showed lack of respect for his privacy. Find a way to respect it. You showed lack of faith. Show faith again. You acted... well, childishly... with petulance, jealousy, etc. So act like a woman. You made a big deal out of something that wasn't. You still are. So... minimalize this with him.
Admitting you were wrong, saying you're sorry, and meaning it will go a long way.
2006-08-15 13:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you busted into his personal space, he may not be hiding anything, but he feels as though you are spying on him. Give him the benefit of the doubt. If you have no other reason to feel like hes messing around on you. If you have other reasons, this might be a different story. How would you feel if hed done the same thing to you?
2006-08-15 13:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so suspicious? Chill out until you feel your husband is giving you a reason to be suspicious.
2006-08-15 13:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋