I have this serious problem to talk abt ...there is this guy who is a genuine friend and he loves me named A but I love him as a friend he is sort of everything to me...(I have a family who does not support me) I don't have any such feelings for him...but I love this guy B who says he loves me but I he is not true we are not compatible he wants to dominate me always..and he says it that and even blames me for this and that...and he is damn clever..he never speaks his mind and he is too shrewd he can make anybody dance to his tunes..he speaks very well and he can fool anybody by his talking and he lies so beautifully he is basically a liar...he is not true to me but have made everything so that even if he is not I cannot accuse him of that..but all this which I can see feel and understand but have no clue to accue him off just because he is so shrewd has sort of handicapped me in everyway possible...he wills to marry me and we r marrying next week..whatever may be the reason I LOVE HIM
2006-08-15 06:04:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't even answer this one without being mean, so I wont.
Have fun marrying this controlling, lying, cheating man - hope you enjoy the life you are making for yourself!
2006-08-15 06:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you should tell him that you only want to be his friend! And if he can not except that, then he should just move on! If he truly loved you as more then just a friend, he would not be wanting to dominate you or lie to you! Love & Friendship together is the Most Beautiful & Precious Thing in The World To Have!!!!! But if he feels as if he has to control you then he is not only showing you that he is not a true & promising friend, he is also showing you the true facts in the way that you are feeling! He is also showing you that his love for you is not true either!!!!!! Do your self a favor and just go your seperate ways! DON'T MARRY HIM!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-08-19 05:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you know exactly what kind of man B is and that he will now ever change, then you need to leave him. Guy A is a friend and you need to tell him you only see friendship in your future. Take some time to be alone and gather your thoughts together.
2006-08-15 06:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go with A and B.... go with C... I know that C have better than A and B... I am C smiling... I know that for sure. That why my wife love me... she dump A and B and to be with C (me) smiling. true story. No question about it.
If she did pick A or B and she would never meet C person pefect in her life. whew glad that happen.
2006-08-15 06:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not quit sure but i think you said you were marring a man that is a liar . dont be a dam fool and marry this person. its going to end badly so stop it before it happens . this b person will drag to the ground and then run u through the mud you will not have no selfesteem left .please think real hard before you marry this person. i will pray for u
2006-08-15 06:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by the6ccat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart then and marry the guy but have no illusions about this the guy as he will cheat on you, lie to you and dominate you. It would seem to me that that is what you desire, to have a protector who maybe a villian though.
2006-08-15 06:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by tapiwa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should marry someone who you love a lot and treats you with respect. And the guy loves you too. You shouldn't marry this guy.
2006-08-15 06:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by cuddlypandas7894 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey take a clue.B will always have his way after marriage. do u want to be answering him all the time for your doing everything.
And its always best if a person marries someone who loves her/him than marrying someone he/she loves.
2006-08-15 06:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know they say that love is blind but girl you seriously need to open your eyes. Even though you are obviously aware of who he is and what he's all about you are still going to marry him?! I wouldn't.
2006-08-15 06:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋