I had this friend that I met my junior year in high school, and instantly we hit it off always out at the mall, movies, parties and etc. And when we met she had a boyfriend and I didn't so she was always trying to fix me up with somebody and everytime she'd find somebody I would instantly find something wrong with them and say" no." So close to the end of our senior year she told me about this friend of her brother, I was curious so I said "well let me meet him and go from there." About a week after prom, I was at her house when the guy she told me about brought her brother home, and so we met and I liked him right off. So we start talking on the phone, and eventually hooked-up. The next thing I know we graduate, start college, and then she breaks up with her boyfriend, and when I come to see my boyfriend when I get out of class, there she is. She tried to play it off real cool in the beginning, but I caught up to what she was doing. Tell me how to handle the outcome of her betrayal.
2006-08-15 05:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by Shametria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to trust your boyfriend not to make a fool of himself. If you think that he needs to be kept away from your friend so he doesn't cheat on you, then you are in trouble. Because keeping him away isn't going to stop him. He's gotta love you enough for her not to be of any interest to him. Trust him and treat him well. As for your friend, you can ignore it or tell her it's over between you two. Do what you feel. If you still want to be friends with her, then there is no reason to fight with her. If you feel betrayed then tell her how you feel, and tell her you aren't friends anymore.
2006-08-15 06:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she's just not being friendly with the guy? After all, he is a friend of her brothers, right? But if you think you're right, call her on it. If its true, It would be hard to remain her friend. She just might do it again to you.
2006-08-15 06:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight up with her. Tell her that she should be happy for you since you found someone. Maybe you should try fixing her up with someone now. But she should be respectful enough and mature enough to not go after another friends man.
2006-08-15 06:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by merivel7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like the guy...talk with him first about her..if u dont like him...then try to find a guy w/o her help
2006-08-15 06:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by lovealways0223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be mad..all the time shes near don't acknowledge her presence stop being her friend...or its your choice
2006-08-15 06:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋