What can I do to let myself out of this shy shell?
in public at partys ect..
2006-08-15 05:52:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
easy ... smile nod alot .. agree with others say .. but getting out of ur shell has consequences .. it will make u exposed .. maybe u will get hurt .. but if u r not tough enough .. then u better keep ur delicate wings 4 a clear day with a light summer breeze .. dont fly in the storm .. u might lose them n can never fly again
2006-08-16 12:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by mango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think there is less people in the group... Imagene only a few friends are around you (let's say just 3 or 4) and ignore the rest and act like yourself... little by little you will see the improvement in the letting yourself out of your shell.
2006-08-15 05:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Nacho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are at a party, start a conversation about something you know a lot about, that way you are super comfortable. You will be able to then branch out into other areas like: different topics, talking to new people, maybe even dancing or jokes
2006-08-15 05:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by oh-so- Laid-back 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, I am the same way. I think it is called social anxiety disorder. Just try and focus on one person. It helps me when I have a friend that I know well with me. Then I can talk to them. It takes your mind off of the big crowd.
2006-08-15 05:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a close friend that is more outgoing then you that you can depend on and trust. He or she can be your support during those difficult or awkward times of shyness when you are meeting new people.
2006-08-15 06:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by gillamacs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter has the same problem, so she just hangs out with her friends in smaller groups (under 7people) and she does just fine.
2006-08-15 05:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to remember that over half the people there feel the same way you do. That may help.
2006-08-15 05:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i prefer going out in small groups
2006-08-15 05:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by vicky l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know what you can do to fix that! It's all a part of growing up.
2006-08-15 05:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by shektor9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have about 54 beers
that should help
2006-08-15 05:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋