My sister in law new well ahead of time that my brother loves to play ball. Now she wants to leave him and she's putting me in the middle. This will be her 2nd divorce. I do not like divorce at all. I know they both love each other.She just hates that he wants to play ball. He hates that now after they've been married for 3 months she doesn't want him to play. How do I get them to get over this fight?And leave me out of it?
2006-08-15 05:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by Bears#1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's your brother so I totally understand your involvement. Tell your sistert-n-law she needs to stop pulling you into the middle of their problems. They are both adults and divorce or no divorce the two of them need to figure this out themselves or with a marriage consultant. Da Bears!!!
2006-08-15 06:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by knotykidz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the divorce is over the ball playing then let her go, this tactical behavior and an attempt to control your brother, he needs to stand his ground, be fair but stand his ground. You need to back out of it and let them resolve the matter, you're only going to end up with a black eye when they both turn on you and they will!
2006-08-15 12:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's a hard one sounds like you sister n law needs to GROW UP after 3 mo she already wants a divorce she has some major issue. good luck
2006-08-15 12:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stay out of it and tell them to grow up and agree to disagree on baseball that a relationship should not be based on a game that stupid especially if they love each other.
2006-08-15 12:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by spicy girl 1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you are sorry but you no longer want to be involved in their marital problems. She should discuss her issues with her husband, not you. Any time she tries to involve you, just repeat the same thing.
2006-08-15 13:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU take yourself out of it and let them do whatever they are going to do with their relationship. You cant make her stay married to your brother or anyone else for that matter.
2006-08-15 12:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mind your business and stay out of it. If they try to talk to you about it tell them you don't want to hear it.
2006-08-15 12:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay out of their business.
It's their marriage, not yours.
2006-08-15 12:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋