People think a woman is friends with a gay man because they are one of the girls. That is not true. I like a gay man because of who he is I do not think of him as a girl. I do not think of him romatically, but not as a girl. I feel like he is a third type of friend. How do you feel about your female friends if you are a gay male? My boyfriend is great because he is secure in himself and not affraid of gay people. I currently do not know any gay people exept my mom and her partner. My other friends moved. I just want my mom to be happy.
Who do you link of your female friends as. Are they like family to you?
2006-08-15 05:40:00 · 9 answers · asked by adobeprincess 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I like non sexual affection, so I like family type love from them.
2006-08-15 05:40:51 · update #1
Cool photo kooko I think we should have someone make a book of bush funny faces if they have not already. A compilation would be good.
2006-08-15 05:51:49 · update #2
Yeah I am not one of these confused women who thinks a gay guy is going to go straight. I do not want to shop with them. My friends and I have mostly gone to eat and talked. We have also gone to movies. I just like it because I can have a male friend that I know is not trying to have sex with me. I want friends and not always romatic friends. Sometimes I just want a pure male friend and I do not have a brother or a father or an uncle or a grandfather. No cousin either. I just want a male friend. I have a boyfriend. A gay friend is not a girl. Straight homophobic men say that. My BF is self confident and not that way so he does not say that.
2006-08-15 07:59:18 · update #3
Some stupid women think of every man as a potiential mate and use their sexual charm or lack their of on them. It is rediculous. I am not one of those. I am a human who can relate to others. In fact I am to naieve I think all men want to be my friend when some want to get in my pants.
2006-08-15 08:01:03 · update #4
It is nice to have a friend who is not looking for love or sex from me, and who is not in competition with me for the guys I like. You can be open and talk about almost anything. I like that.
2006-08-15 09:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by michael941260 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The majority of my friends are female, my best friend is a female we shop, get our hair and nails done together, go out to eat and do a lot of girl talk. She has a boyfriend and he knows I'm not interested in her sexually.....but him on the other hand...if only he knew.
2006-08-15 11:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have plenty of female friends and I love them. But I am not "one of the girls" to them. I am pretty much straight acting, I can't bear to do long shopping trips and I like doing things like karate.
In many ways, females are our most natural choices. With a gay man, their can sometimes be too much sexual tension, with a straight man - he is always wondering if you will hit on him. But a straight woman knows that we like her for who she is and that we arn't going to try and sleep with her. My female friends love to ask me insights about their men. And although I'm not attracted to women, they are half of the human race and I do like to understand them. I treat them like I would a sister and they love it!
2006-08-15 06:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have several women friends, and I am not one of the girls. Women are great friends to men (perhaps not to women), and I treasure each one ... we share common bonds of high level dance, interestes, humor, in plain English, they are fun to be with. I have learned it works far better if I am with one of them at a time.
2006-08-15 06:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have female friends because they all hate me, even though I'm gay, they think I'm hitting on them. Females usually go after the cute, twinkish boy guys. Sad but true.
2006-08-15 06:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Female friends are the best!! We can talk about anything, including men, and we have a keen sense of people reading that straight men don't generally have. I love my fa.g hags.
2006-08-15 05:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly if he's dozing with a chick he isnt gay, he's Bi. And definite i'd have a difficulty because it truly is dishonest. i imagine it truly is one ingredient, inspite of the undeniable fact that a slippery slope for 2 human beings to usher in a third, if or not it is yet another guy or a chick. yet its yet another for him to bypass out and function sex with yet another chick or dude. i'm constructive even thoroughly immediately men might want to be pissed if their lady pal grow to be having sex with a lady on the area. constructive its warm if she is kissing yet another lady in the club, or if she needed to have a three way. yet even as she is going out on her personal to be with a lady, even he might want to be worried. same as a guy whos boyfriend is going out with a lady.
2016-11-25 19:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely *love* my female friends, we can dish, shop and vent about things.. its the best!
2006-08-15 06:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are better than male friends, though dont really know why
2006-08-15 06:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Travis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋