2006-08-15 05:34:24 · 23 answers · asked by Paulo V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A couple of reasons. The main reason is that you have confidence and it shows. When you exude confidence you are not trying so hard to impress. You can just relax and be yourself and that is very attractive.
Also, if your mate is very attractive it tends to make members of the opposite sex believe that you must be quite a find. You are with that very attractive person so you must have that special something that they are looking for too.
The worse case scenario is that some people just like the challenge of stealing someone else's pleasure.
When you mature and become completely comfortable with who you are, you will hopefully be able to exude that kind of self confidence whether you currently are in a relationship or not. that will make you very appealing.
2006-08-15 05:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it can happen because when you are with somebody and you really love eachother then you evolve from a good person into a better person. Your confidance and self worth improves, you become more patient and care less about people's opinions. Because you arn't interested in people beyond friendship there is no hidden agenda and you can be yourself with them. All of that is attractive to other people.
Also when people see other people in happy relationships they aspire to have the same thing.
or it could be as many people here say that it's a case of forbidden fruit.
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2006-08-15 05:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say it's our primal instincts. I used to go to this club. I would dance with anyone, hottie or not. My someone snobbish girlfriends would always give me a hard time. Why do you do that. they would only dance with the hotties.
I would say what the heck does it hurt. I got to dance and they feel better who does it hurt.
One night there was a guy. He always watched me and looked like he wanted to ask me to dance. He always chickened out. So I asked him. We danced, hung out with me and my friends. The girls at first all had their noses up in the air. But the more I hung out with him, and other chicks in the club saw him hanging out with our group. They seemed to be looking at him in a new light.Like what are we missing. Some men and women don't even notice man or a woman. Until you see either of them you see as not a great match. A great looking guy with a less than attractive woman. The guys look at the woman and think what's going on there.
Needless to say the guy I started to hang out with. Became so full of himself, women hanging all over him. That he wouldn't even acknowledge me. I guess I did my good deed.
2006-08-15 05:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so true and I recon it's because you don't reek of desperation! You know when you're out looking for someone, it's always more effective to play hard to get as you present a challenge. Sure if you're easy you'll get laid but if you're looking for flirting, fun and adventure then be sure to make it difficult. When you want someone you're in a rush to appear keen, say the right thing, to try to impress. But when you take a cool stance you can enjoy the art of flirting, clean out the weirdos and pervs from the nice people and actually have a conversation, give them the look, dance and make them want you.... and when you have someone you're confident and enjoying yourself, you don't need anyone and you dont' appear to be hunting prey - so to speak. People are most attracted to relaxed and smiley, confident people - which often happens when you have someone.
Ironic
2006-08-15 05:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by media mogul 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is more attractive than a person who feels happy. It shows. If you are in a committed relationship, that question being settled in your life, for the time being anyway, makes you exude more confidence. That attracts people.
You don't have to act on the attractions!
2006-08-15 05:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's the guppy effect.... there can be a piece of bread floating in a pond and no fish bothering it.. the moment the first little guppy goes to get a piece, all of the fish come... envy is everywhere. and if someone's already taken, they must have some kind of quality that attracts that person and others see that. i guess
2006-08-15 05:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by tomiyo 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yeah weird that- i think its because you give off the "im totally over the moon and happy vibe" and people are very receptive to it, but when youre single you give off the "im comfortable and independant" vibe
weird isnt it!
I think its like buses- you wait ages then 3 come along!
always happens to me!
2006-08-15 05:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because if the one you have finds you attractive, surely other people do too.
Plus, people often want what they thinkis out of reach.
If the one you have is right, don't be tempted to swap!!
2006-08-15 05:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by alan h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your self-confidence is set to 11, and that is attractive to people.
2006-08-15 05:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it because you are more confident in yourself. Also, some people like a challenge or think, if they find them attractice maybe I should look closer. This happens with married people, I know, I am married.
2006-08-15 05:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋