how do u end a friendship that u wish u had for ever?

Question

she's better off without me.

Answer 1

she has upset up recently or she has take another best friend and avoid u ? do u feel like an outsider. u maybe find it difficult to end this friendship as u like her very much and still inspite of watr she is doing want , u want to return as beforewith her ...
i think if she ignore u then u have first to know if she had a problem , personal or maybe a problem with u.......
if she dont want to be ur friend anymore then leave her alone , their are many people around which would like to have ur friendship..
people often pretent to be friend with us but in reality they only want to take profit of us , so be careful .. u cannot consider them as friends

Answer 2

Waaaay too little info here, guy. What makes you think she is better off without you? Could be you are right, but maybe not. Fill in the gaps some here.

Answer 3

Well..if u feel that u are bringing her down..that u are no good... why not work on yourself? so that you FEEL and KNOW that u are good enough? that u deserve a good friend like her? u say u wish u had it forever.. u CAN, if u try. if u give it up, it may be for 'her own good' in your eyes...but she will feel that u have given up on her. if u can't come clean, and can't or don't try ur hardest to be the best person and friend u can be, of course ur going to feel dejected and sad, and worthless. but if u keep doing ur best, trying to learn, asking questions, searching for answers, regardless of the results, you will be appreciated. your efforts will show and prove to your friends that you are worth something. because u are trying..sometimes the results are not all that is important; it is the knowledge that you are trying to be better. that in itself is Awesome, and truly admirable.

if u have time, please read Romans 5-8. it truly changed my life, like last month. :)! haha... pretty much it says that if u accept Jesus as your savior, you are Justified---> Not Guilty of ALL sins past, present and future. so u know what? those mistakes u made? or are going to make?? it's OK. God already forgives you, because of Jesus' sacrifice. therefore, all u need to do in order to truly accept and appreciate it, is Rejoice...!! can u believe it? all u have to do, is live your life as Happy, Positive, Joyful, and Meaningful as possible... no punishment, no feeling bad about mistakes. you are forgiven. now u are Free to do what Is Right...even if u mess up. as long as u try hard to do what is Right, u will be free from the punishment.

this is very similar to friendship, or relationships. if u truly respect and care for ur friends, no matter what they do, no matter what mistakes they make..it's OK. because as long as you know that they are trying their best to change, to be better, you will help them. u will continue to love them. of course if they do stuff and don't apologize, don't care if they hurt other people, it will be harder and harder for u to accept and forgive. but just knowing that they care, that they want to change, to be better, that is Enough. and you can do the same. and u are doing it for yourself as well, not just ur friend. u are doing it to make Yourself better, *so that* you are worthy of those Good people, and they are worthy of you. :) so keep trying! don't give up.. it is worth it to keep good people around you, and leave the negative behind. and if u are negative, keep working on urself so that u can become positive. life is good, take that chance. you can always change the future, and learn from the past.

Answer 4

I agree with Diana, you need to giv emore info.
By any chance are you in love with her and think she is too good for you?

Answer 5

just let them know the reason why u cant be friends, i hope it isnt a stupid reason, but if thats what you want, make sure u know what u r ending.