2006-08-15 04:20:29 · 14 answers · asked by hoot_52 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You drop it.
The only thing that doesn't get better with nursing is a grudge.
2006-08-15 04:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is holding a grudge so important? You are allowing that person to have free rent in your head. Pray about it and let it go. You will soon find that is really isn't all that important. And its making you crazy. The other person probably isn't even thinking about it.
2006-08-15 11:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maturity helps. Self Esteem helps. Self confidence helps. Self worth helps.
Immaturity only feeds grudges.
2006-08-15 11:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive the other person, in your heart of hearts, they may not have known any better, and most of all forgive yourself for having the grudge in the first place, because you do know better!
2006-08-15 11:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Insight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this paragraph and add the sugested emoitions. you will know when you read it right the feeling of release.
I can see that_____________ has some shortcomings,
(peaceful,with acceptance that His/Hers shortcomings don't bother you)
and that probably makes His/Hers life much more difficult.
(empathy, see how the shortcomings are a diterment for the other)
That must be sad for Him/Her
(Deeply empathize, Feel his/her pain)
It sure SEEMS that his/her shortcomings are also making my life more difficult.
(Feel the ILLUSION that others are the cause of their problems)
However, one thing I know for sure
(Emphasis on certainty)
is that it is NOT
(NOT must be strong and powerful)
His/Hers shortcomings
(point to yourself)
that are causing MY difficulties
(acceptance and celebration of your difficulties)
My difficulties are caused by mistakes that I am making
(ownership)
that i either do not recognize
or do not choose to change
Therefore, I let ___________
( Take a deep breath hold it with your arms stretched)
off the hook
(exhale fully droping your arms)
and stop pressuring him/her to change.
(recognize that your grudge is an attempt to pressure that person to change)
Let me know how this works mmmkay_us@yahoo.com
2006-08-15 12:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as a wound covered with a band aid. If you keep raising the band aid every now and then to look at the wound, it will never heal. It may even get infected and become septic.
Pray to God and He will help you to get rid of it.
2006-08-15 11:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kalyansri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u learn to grow up and realize the world is not getting any better with ur grudge...its just not worth it
2006-08-15 11:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By finding peace within yourself
2006-08-15 11:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING WE CAN LET GO
Let it go...by T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you.
I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ... LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you ... LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ...
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ... LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude... LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him... LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship....
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves... LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed ... LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to...
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2006!!! LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then LET IT GO!!!
"The Battle is the Lord's!"
During the next 60 seconds, Stop whatever you are doing, and take this opportunity. (Literally it is only One minute!) All you have to do is the
following: You simply say "The Lords Prayer" for the person that sent you this message:
The Lords Prayer
Our Father, who art in Heaven, Hallowed be Thy Name, Thy Kingdom Come, Thy Will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day, our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the Kingdom, and the Power, and the
Glory, forever. Amen.
Next, send this message to everyone you know. In a while, more people will have prayed for you and you would have obtained a lot of people praying for others.
Next, stop and think and appreciate God's power in your life, for doing what you know is pleasing to Him.
"Yes, I love my God. He is my fountain of Life and My Savior. He Keeps me going day and night. Without Him, I am no one. But with Him, I can do everything, Christ is my strength."
God loves you and watches over you every day!!!
2006-08-15 11:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by ghoppers64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dip your hands in boiling water
2006-08-15 11:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Asad Hassan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋