You were talking to your boyfriend then he says someone is at his door and that he will call you back, but doesnt call you back until the next morning knowing he screwed up not calling me and then explaining to me that his female friend came over and they were talking outside his house because she was histerical because she caught her boyfriend cheating. Is this right? should I not care?Also this same female friend asked him if she can move in to help him out a couple of weeks before all this.
2006-08-15 04:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by florlatinspice0825 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From a guys POV... there is a chance that he isnt screwing around, but then why didnt he call you back? Thats pretty ****** up. I can see your suspicion, but as that other girl said... "Put that b**ch in check!"
2006-08-15 04:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by CHER_ISH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, your boyfriend needs to know that when he is in a relationship that he shouldn't be spending so much time with other females. You let him off the hook too quick. Ask him how he would like it if you had him waiting by the phone while you spent all night with a guy friend of yours. He would think all sorts of things. Doesn't it make you wonder why he didn't even bother to call you? I'd get down to the bottom of it and let him know how it's going to be.
2006-08-15 11:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon I don't think we need to tell u that your not playing with a full deck if you believe all that bullshit. And if you do believe it then you deserve what u get. Get a new bf and quit being desperate and looking like a fool and letting them laugh at you behind your back about how stupid you are ok get on with yourself and start a new life with someone you can trust and believe in if there is anyone out there like that now days sorry for being so strong lipped but its the same thing i would tell anyone of my own daughter. Thank You Grandma Rosey
2006-08-15 21:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by ROSEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow I have hear this story b4 and I always feel bad for the person on your end of it all.
I think it is a very touchy subject but in the same time you need to look at it from his point of view too! Alot of people look at it as a friend is a friend no matter what the sex of that person is.
How long has he known this friend? and is there any other reason for you to think there is something going on with them such as a past or feeling for eachother!
If you have any reason to think there is more to this then I would say talk to him and let him know what you are thinking and see what he says and if its believeable!!!| If not then there is someone else out there who will NOT put you in this situation and will care about you enough to not have you thinking things and beging worried about his friends!
Good luck!!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 11:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Just ME!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always had very close friends that were girls, and they were just that, close friends, I never touched them (and yeah, they were pretty hot). At some point you have to trust your boyfriend or you might end up pushing him away. You can care but don't automatically find him guilty in your head without finding the facts. Sit down with him and ask him about the situation, see how he reacts.
As for him not returning your call...just tell him you were waiting for the call back and you though it was kinda impolite to keep you waiting like that.
2006-08-15 11:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by goldiemcg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have lost all trust in him and he would have to go to Mt. Everest before I believe what he is saying. Something is fishy, very fishy. You need to get him check.
Is this the first time that this has happened? If it is give him another chance, if it had happened before then you may need to rethink some things.
2006-08-15 11:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how much you trust him. Has he ever given you reason to mis-trust him? REAL reasons like actually been caught cheating? Give him some trust, but keep your eyes open.
2006-08-15 11:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does this other girl not have other female friends she could talk too?? this is obvouisly creating friction between the relationship-so he needs to respect you and tell him how you feel.
2006-08-15 11:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, heck no, I kno you didn't fall for that lie!!!! I will bust that Biatch in the nose if i were you... then I'd go after that lying bastard boyfriend of yours.
oh let me guess..she also slipped and fell on his d*ick too??
2006-08-15 11:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG alert you should care a lot. i bet she is trying to hook up with him. if ur boyfriend is going along with it WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH HIM?!?!? ask him her or me see what he says
2006-08-15 11:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by hotrachelle1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋