We broke up cause she found another girl being called in florida and i live in ny on my cell phone bill. she feel like i went to florida and cheate dbut i didnt. We still speak time to time and we even sometimes see eachother sexually. This weekend we hung out and had sex from friday to monday walked in the park we had fun she even said she really enjoyed herself. yet when i ask her if we can try to work things out she refuses me everytime, and sasy no cause she will never be able to trust me again. i really want her back any suggestions? why would she chill with me and have sex wit me but not wanna try to work things out? she saw other people since we've split up, yet she still hangs out with me time to time? im confused? what kinda game is this or is this a game? whats going on?she says she wants to be friends and doesnt wanna be misleading! i dont under stand...
2006-08-15 04:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by kaine0ne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hang around cuz by us hanging out from time to time i feel i still have a chance at getting back with her!
2006-08-15 04:29:55 · update #1
dude...this chic is so playing you...but you're letting her...she's dating other people and giving it to you whenever she feels like it...come on now...I understand you let it happen because you want to be with her...but let this relationship be what it is and move on...its alright to have a booty call from time to time...but I'd start looking for someone else to get serious with...if that's what you want...she' enjoying herself right now...she's got you as a friend/booty call and she's free to holla at other men...come one now...when your a single female...that's what its all about...
2006-08-15 04:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_latina830 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seem i comprehend it hurts to even remotely think of she is able to recover from you so quickly. and that i comprehend it hurts to think of that another guy is so super that she is prepared to do something to be the acceptable mate for him. First, comprehend those are all fake. She is in a unfavorable rebound good now. regrettably, she is getting into right into a marriage it is doomed to end. 2nd; in case you opt for to recover from her you will desire to artwork on your self. What became into incorrect pertaining to to the relationship you had along with her? What did you do/did no longer try this contributed to the loss of life of the relationship? how are you able to swap? Are you waiting to alter? third; supply your self time. 4 years is a sturdy chew of time to be with somebody. you will desire to settle for that the relationship is carried out. you in addition to would would desire to realize what strengths you have. you opt for to be a sturdy BF for the subsequent lady good? I wager the subsequent lady does not desire thus far some guy who continues to be speaking approximately his ex and how mean she became into. i'd say no relationship for no less than the subsequent 6 months. Get your life returned on aim and you subject concerns so as. Forth: be sure what you relatively need in a woman. Is she tall? Does she have a school degree? Does she like bowling? Are her father and mom nevertheless married? stick to your checklist whilst your accomplished making it and don't be scared to function to it. 5th: have relaxing. life is short. comprehend those issues happen and afterwards your a extra advantageous individual. I wager at some point your ex will call and initiate telling you approximately her quickly to be failed marriage. She'll be searching for convenience and you'd be telling her which you would be able to no longer communicate. Your busy with your new lady and speaking on your ex would offend her. you will tell your new lady pertaining to to the ex contacting you and what became into stated. She'll be satisfied to call you her guy and he or she'll think of she is so fortunate to have you ever. best of luck!
2016-10-02 02:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change the fact that she doesn't want to be with you. I suggest that you move on with your life and cut this girl off. The more time you spend with her it's only going to make things more complicated for you if she doesn't feel that you're the right person for her.
2006-08-15 04:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants your package not you. Why else would she stick around. If it's all good w/ you. Why not.
You said she's seen others-- well obviously the others aren't well packaged like you.
2006-08-15 04:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Q. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her tell her you dont want her as ur friend cause ur looking for a relationship to see what she says,if she doesnt want to go back with you ,shes useing you as a booty call ,sex,sex,look for a new girl!! and dont be giving ur number out if you dont no to play ur card!!!
2006-08-15 04:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by big&beutifull 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let her do her own thing
2006-08-15 04:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave her alone.
2006-08-15 04:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋