my bf is in the army and i got a call that they could not find him and i dont want any thing to happein to so what sould i do my friend said to stop crying over it and move on but she never liked him
2006-08-15 04:11:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell your friend to go fu*k off, grieve the way that you want too. I wish the best for you and your b/f family, and I hope that everything turns out okay!!!
2006-08-15 04:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by twofroggiesand1princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have religion, then pray. If not, try to be mature and realistic. He joined the Army to be a soldier and to do a job for you and all of his country. Love and respect him for that. Over 2500 American soldiers have died so far in our current war. You however, did not say he was fighting the war. Maybe he just went AWOL because he met a hot babe last weekend and don't want to go back to work. Maybe he is scared and hiding because he heard he will be going to Iraq. At any rate, he is just "missing". Keep your hope up and don't cry until you have some real reason to cry.
2006-08-15 11:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by azruder 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep on praying that they will find him. I feel so sorry for you. If you can, call them up and ask them if you can be updated once in a while.
2006-08-15 11:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to kiss your butt! How dare she say something like that to you. You grieve how ever long you need to. Don't move on from your boyfriend just yet..... move on to a better friend though. I would not have a friend like that.
2006-08-15 11:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prayer.
2006-08-15 11:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl honestly...
friends [sometimes] can be the worst people to go to advice for! lol
if i was in ya situation i [ if u lOve this man...& want to be wit him...have a life wit him] then be loyal to your man pray for him...& wat for him...
keep ya hopes up...& when he comes bak home to u...im sure you'll both be happy u stuck it out thru these tuff times!!
2006-08-15 11:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lili 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray hard that he'll be fine
2006-08-15 11:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well pray for him and hope he's alright
2006-08-15 11:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray to allah to release him.
2006-08-15 11:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by nakedandsucking 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋