i m from india, i m 17 years old.i dont have bf. i have 1 best friend. i respect him a lot but today he prapose to me. i am confused to what to say.i like him but i dont love him. i m waiting for my dreamboy. i want simple boy but he is not like that. so what can i do? still wait for my dreamboy or accept his praposal?
2006-08-15 04:07:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u already know the answer...obviously u should say no...i know him being a very good friend gives u the creeps about saying "no" or loosing him....if u know u don't love him....just say no...tell him what your problem is...if he really id that a good friend...he will definately understand....maybe he'll go cranky nuts about u saying no...if that happens....give him some time....stay away from him and tell him to get it out of his head....he'll soon be alright and u will have ur friend back....just think of the situation when u won't be as committed as u could be...just because u don't love the person....then....u'll actually loose him...so girl...go n concentrate on ur studies....and wait for the guy u'll love
2006-08-15 06:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by mj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pl. cool down. U R too young yet to think about such an serious issues, concerning future, career. B patience, concentrate on studies & career. Liking someone's different than loving, don't mix it up & don't get confused. There's no harm in developing good friendship, but when it comes to proposes, better U consult your parents too. As per our Indian culture, B wise & smart enough first to take decisions on your own. V Indians, values our family, cultures, society, religions & so on. Hence, do not hurry, wait for the right time, or else, U R likely to make mistakes at this early age. U can communicate on my IM or 360 for any further guidance, if required or otherwise too.
2006-08-15 12:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't accept his proposal if you don't love him. You're just gonna make it worse because your gonna be unhappy and then you're gonna hurt him whenever you do find your dreamboy. Just wajt on him
2006-08-15 12:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by shady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont accept!!!!! tell him the truth..tell him wht u want...make all the thngs clr..n tell him k this shudnt affect ur frndship..as he is ur bestfrnd..and u need him all the time..he shud b able to understnd u..please dont accept the proposel simply if u dont love him as this will create a mess later on..whn u will find ur mr right..n u will have to go near him..n leave ur bestfrnd hurt..so better make thngs cleared out nw
2006-08-15 11:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Chweet_alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JINAL ,IF U KNOW HE IS NOT LIKE UR DREAMBOY THEN JUST REFUSE HIS PROPOSAL. IF THE IS REALLY GOOD THEN DONT MISS HER FRIENDSHIP. U BOTH CAN BE FRIENDS
2006-08-15 11:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait for the man you want and just tell the guy in a nice way.
2006-08-15 13:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen listen to ur heart
only u knw better no one here knw hw is tht guy none of us has seen him so i will honestly tell u tht nt u believe not to reject him
2006-08-15 11:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by rishi anand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle. Wait for what you want.
2006-08-15 11:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP BABY ........................... wait till college
2006-08-15 11:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by chdman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT AND RUN
2006-08-15 11:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋