I've met this wonderful guy i love so much we get along well except i get angry something with his casual drinkng, we work in the same building, one afternoon i was angry with my sister so i left without saying goodbye. When i got home he text it is over, i reply it is ok. The night he call me at work i told him have someone waiting on me(which i did not had no one), so he came by my work to c who was there smile and wave good bye then he left, he call and i said i can talk to u now later, he text i love u so much the following he call me. after that i try calling him and he will not answer my call/text or talk to me. My sister / friend talk to him and he say he don't know that he call me, i approach him and ask what happen y he hurting me like this he say he text me it was"i am sorry i have to do this i don't think we can work it out bye" my friend call him and ask y he not talking to me and she make a joke with him that she kill him for hurting me he said he wish if he could die now.
2006-08-15 04:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My suggestion to you is to find some peace within yourself. Don't blame yourself for his decision to ignore you/move on. If you want any chance of getting him back or at least getting his attention, you must act as if you are over him. Don't try to contact him, don't ask anyone to talk to him. Just act like you don't care anymore. In the meantime, if you see him, just give him a friendly hello and go on about your business. Make sure that he sees you, but don't try to have a conversation-just say hi. Have lunch with people and always act happy. Believe me, he'll eventually want to know what's going on in your life. Good Luck!
2006-08-15 04:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to slow down and figure out what you are trying to say, that stuff don't make no since. How can you be in love so much and you just met him, you don't even know him. That's why his drinking is bothering you so. He is putting drinking before you. Slow down and get to know this guy. Maybe he needs to try and help his self first with his drinking.
2006-08-15 04:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Good P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could be in love with someone that wouldn't talk to me. If he's playing games with you, you don't want him. Find someone that is honest and straight forward with you and you'll forget all about this guy. It also doesn't sound like he has much respect for you. Respect yourself and go on with your life.
2006-08-15 04:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many fishes more in the sea. Get over him and find someone else if he's not entertaining you. Get things clear. If you need to ask him how he feels for you, then go ahead. Ask him.
Good luck..
2006-08-15 04:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Julian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is an alcoholic and feels ashamed?
Men do this. He loves you and he's not seeing you because of something he thinks is right. Tell him that if he doesn't come around that you will go out with this other guy who asked you out.
2006-08-15 04:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well other then the poor english and grammer in this statement the only thing i can determine is that youve brought this upon yourself so accept the results of your actions. Time to move on.
2006-08-15 04:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this guy, if he treating you like this he is not worth the trouble and will just cause more problem in the furture. He needs to grow up.
2006-08-15 04:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Silver 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you pretended to have someone.
he feels betrayed now.
lost the trust. you'll probably never get it back, he will always doubt you.
move on,
2006-08-15 04:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by digital genius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant if he isnt talking to you , let him go ! Find someone else!
2006-08-15 04:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS NOT EVEN A QUESTION. In my opinion, I think your just stalking him. Thanks for the 2 points xD
2006-08-15 04:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by oogie_boogie92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋