2006-08-15 04:04:50 · 14 answers · asked by freedom 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Awww sweets. Ive been having sex for over 10 years and never had one. Most girls dont have them till they are in their 30's. My friend Kee, just had her first one this year. She is 31. Alot of it is in your mind. You have to stop thinking about all the little things in life and dont worry about how your body looks. Its very hard, and is easier as you get older. I bet you wish someone had told you all this before having sex. I know i did.
2006-08-15 05:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing to worry about, give it time it will happen, you can't stress or tense up or it won't. Clitoral stimulation also helps with this because some women can't orgasm vaginally. Just take it easy, don't worry, and go with the flow of things. Make sure your doing things during sex that you like and enjoy not just what he wants, it's not just about him and his needs it's yours too. your boyfriend should understand that and should be willing to compensate and help with that. Besides I find that men get off and get more turned on when they know they are helping you achieve orgasim they feel like they are gods when that happens..lol. Try it, talk to him, do what you want during sex, try using your finger on your clit while having sex, and most of all don't stress. Good luck
2006-08-15 04:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by carebearashee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women cannot experience climax during intercourse. Have your partner perform oral sex on you by using his tongue to stimulate your clitoris. After 2 or 3 minutes (you will need to direct him..."right there" or "that feels good" or "don't stop!") you will achieve an orgasm. Relax, don't tense up, just let it happen, it's perfectly natural. Good luck!
2006-08-15 04:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women don't have an orgasm all the time. It took me a while too. You just have to find the right technique...move...to have one. Just keep trying different things....And make sure to relax!
2006-08-15 06:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could take women some time to have a orgasm. some factors to notice would be 1) your partner and his style of love, what attracts you to him, does he make you feel free in bed 2) are you open to new things and is your boyfriend 3) where is your mind? are you focused in the moment or is your mind on other things. the mind triggers a heightened pleasure and then you must react on what drives you happy...
2006-08-15 04:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by gennalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worrying will only make it worse - it isn't always easy to orgasm the first time - assuming you are female. 75% of women do not orgasm vaginally. clitoral stimulation should work. relax and enjoy - it will happen.
2006-08-15 04:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no need to worry but I would check out why this is so. Have you had your partner take more time to stimulate you to orgasm.
2006-08-15 04:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes some ppl are like that. See a doctor. he can put something in you that will make you have an orgasm
2006-08-15 04:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took me a while to get my first one also. it just takes time. it doesnt always happen the first, second or third time. you will know when it does happen because it is the best feeling in the whole world!! But dont worry, it will happen before you know it. just try not to think about it and just let it come.
2006-08-15 04:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ur partner to do what u like. Just relax and enjoy it. It will work out fine in no time.
2006-08-15 04:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by skr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋