I have been talking to a guy for almost a month, he has already asked me to be his girlfriend, but I said "NO" because I thought it was too soon and we have not formally met yet. I have been talking to him for almost a month and we are supposed meet this weekend. I have really gotten to know how over the past 4 weeks and am planning to say "YES" this weekend. I was wondering how long I should wait before sleeping with him. He has never had a sexual encounter, except for oral sex. But he has admitted to me that he has watched numerous porno movies and knows what to do. I just don't know if I should make him wait or just do it.
2006-08-15 03:57:25 · 9 answers · asked by curleysue272000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Make him wait, to see if the relationship actually lasts. My "trial period" was always 6 months. If they made it to that time in the relationship, then I'd consider going farther. (But don't let them know the time requirement, or else they might hang around until then, just for the sex, then leave you.)
2006-08-15 04:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait! don't even think about it! You met this guy ONLINE and have only been talking to him for 4 weeks! You don't even REALLY TRUELY KNOW him yet! I wouldn't even be meeting him alone this soon! For all you know he's a crazy person that stalks women and kills them!
Don't even think about it, besides if you were to stay alive and slept with him he wouldn't even talk to you again more than likely a hit and bang that would be it.
Plus how do you know he is 100% telling the truth that he's never had sex? See you don't know this guy! DON'T have sex with him and I seriously recommend taking a friend with you when you meet him!
Be safe and use your head, I know you have to be smarter than this! Don't fall inline to another sexual predator or get your heart broken by an idiot who was out trolling for sex online and does the deed with you then ignores you and you get hurt..
Think before you leap!
2006-08-15 04:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by carebearashee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear curlysue,
The Bible tells us that a man and woman should not become intimate until AFTER they are married. So for you to engage in this act before marriage is called adultery or fornication and is sin. I do not know if you have any religious background but do you know that we are so close to Christ's second coming--Judgement Day? His second coming will mark the end of the world and the final judgement! If you are not a child of God (saved), my advice to you is to begin reading the Bible. It does not matter if you understand everything that read. Just read slowly and prayerfully, asking the Lord to have mercy on you. You see, "So then, faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God." "Faith" is a synonym for the Lord Jesus Christ so we can say Christ cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God. If the Lord is going to save you, it will be in the environment of hearing the word of God. If the Lord does not save us, we will have to be eternally under the wrath of God!
I hope that will wait and keep your virginity. Wait for a man who loves you and does not want to just use you.
2006-08-15 04:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by pilgrim_153 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, you mean he's actually watched a movie with sex in it!!! Well, by all means go ahead and sleep with him, he must know all there is to sex by now!!!
Seriously, he's probably going to be a quick draw artists and really disappointing you in many ways...including ever calling you again after sleeping with you this time!
2006-08-15 04:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Don't put out to someone you have only met in person once that is just poor descsion making.
2006-08-15 04:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld wait. u sound too young. once its gone its gone forever
2006-08-15 04:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mike Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the deed
2006-08-15 04:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by mrsunshine56987 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case, you are already too late.....
He should spank you for that....
2006-08-15 04:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do him this weekend
2006-08-15 04:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋