I have been with my boyfriend for awhile. We have had some pregnancy scares before and some pregnancy ups and downs. In the past I have always been able to tell him right away when the thought that I might be pregnant has crossed my mind. A little less than a week ago I found out that I am pregnant and have also seen the docter and had blood work done that confirmed my at home pregnancy test. My first prenatel apt. isn't till next month. He is going through alot of stress right now and I do not think that he even wants child right now. Even though it hasn't been but almost a week I still feel badly as though I am being dis honest with him which I never have been. I also feel like I am keeping secrets, which in a way I am. I also almost feel like I "pushing off" telling him. So my question is should I wait till he's not going through so much stress (which may be awhile) or what? When and how should I tell him that I am pregnant? I want everything 2 b done right this time & 2 work out.
2006-08-15 03:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by SunShine 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i would tell him i got and doc app. and i would love for him to go with me.. ween we got there i would tell him there something i need to tell you . i know your going though allot right now. but i am pregnant and i though you need to know this.i would like you to come to my vist with me so you can hear the heart beat and see our ultra sounds. or tell him i know your going though allot right now but i have something for you to look at .do you have the yellow paper they gave you from the doc steal??? it should say somewere on there that your test come back +. allot of time there and + sign beside pregnancy test in other it said that your pregnant hand him that paper. and tell him to take and good look at it. that you have and app. next month or they doing your ultra sound then? my doc dose it on the sound vist to see how the baby growing and if everything going well. tell him you like him to go with you. but you need to tell him he needs to know.
wish you luck and congrad's on the new baby.
2006-08-15 04:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by mommy72403 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him asap. You never know...finding out that he has a little one on the way may make light on his problems and stress. Sometimes it takes something very special and big to make a person see that the problems they have aren't so bad. Good luck and congratulations!
2006-08-15 03:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by facs2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him, sit down and have a talk mabey at dinner time, it will be ok, he may be a little stressed at first but he will realize that things will be ok, and you have to convince him that it will be ok also. i dont think u should wait long to tell him because then he will think u hide things from him, good luck girl
2006-08-15 03:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fool for even waiting to tell him about an unborn child that's his.
You're also a fool for not using protection.
2006-08-15 03:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Isles1015 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good Idea is to tell the father as soon as you know. And I have been to a lot of wreackers in both ca and nev.
2006-08-15 07:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by sweetjim007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like pulling off a band aid..
Do it now and do it quick...
2006-08-15 03:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooner the better
he should know that he has done it
make him feel proud
2006-08-15 03:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asap. It is his child too.
2006-08-15 03:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sooner the better. if i was him i'd be pissed u didn't tell me as soon as you knew.
2006-08-15 03:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him out to dinner or something
2006-08-15 03:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by kbug_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋