I need some new ideas, I dont want us to get bored with sex, its great for now but its starting to feel like I know what to expect next etc, etc.
2006-08-15 03:39:51 · 25 answers · asked by celebrate life you only get one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've been married for 10 years now and about 5 years in it started to get into a routine.. So we "both" went to a sex store, not one of the smuts one's you see on a corner but a nice looking that sells marital aids. Be honest with each other and talk about what you both like. For example just last month we got bath salts for the bath and after Honey dust "eatable" it puts a new "not perverted" twist to thing..
Here is a link of a place we like to go, it's a nice shop for stuff..
http://www.sexshopcanada.com/two.html
Hope this helps..
2006-08-15 03:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by A Real Geek at heart 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3 some!
2006-08-15 03:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by hpneil 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All you need is to do different things with your sex life. First off everyone has fantasy things we think about but are to scared or embarrassed to try. So what you do is write down some of your fantasy's and tell him to right down some of his. Then you put them in a jar and take turns picking fantasy's and fore filling them. Also you can roll play bring some sex toys on the scene from time to time play **** and go seek etc. Just be creative and you won't go wrong good luck.
2006-08-15 03:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lots of diffrent outfits, from nurse, cop,french maid, catholic school girl etc. He loves them. Plus we use a kamasutra and try all the positions in it. That alone can take a year. There are board games. Ohhh and some people are against porn but, if you two only do it together I think it can be great to try and imatate what the porn stars are doing. Often I write him little emails that are sooo nasty. Or leave him notes in his lunch. Take him to dinner wear a skirt with no panties and give him a lil flash or just whisper it in his ear. That will make him crazy. I havent had any complaints from my hubby yet. Good Luck and Have FUN
2006-08-15 03:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by fawn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try making a date with your husband. Go to a hotel and sign in under Mr. and ms. smith and ask like you are meeting a man you are not married to that adds a little excitement. If you have children get someone to take them over night and have naked night. do everything naked including putting down a blanket and having a picnic in the living room. Put love notes in his wallet when he goes to work it will make him think about you all day after he finds it. Get some padded handcuffs and tie him up or have him tie you up, it doesn't have to be rough sex. blind fold him and while you are doing interesting thing to his body ask him to describe in detail what he wants you to do to him. Get the kama sutra and try out new positions some will make you laugh but you will have fun trying.
2006-08-15 03:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly.
All relationships mature, change, age.
you want spice?
Take a cruise! Three days just off shore usually lasts a year!
Or, off to a motel for a Friday and Saturday night mini-vacation!
But, here is some real advise. You are morbidly concerned with the pre-mature death of your relationship, and need to get with him, involved in a challenge, or a craft or hobby, that consumes you both a bit more!
That is the real problem with Homo Sapiens! As soon as our immediate needs are met, we go off into the jungle looking for more challenges!
"Keep yer stick on the ice, we're all in this together, I'm rooting fer ya!" Mr. Red-Green of the Red-Green TV show.
And, if ya'll get too bored, you could come and attend a meetin' in our Lodge! Always sumpin' stupid to laugh about!
2006-08-15 03:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you try whether it is new positions, toys, or adding people remember to consult your spouse about it because sex is an at least two person thing so talk to him about the new ideas you are recieving here. I personally would suggest something simple to start out with such as instead of full-blown role-playing try playing a more submissive servant role to try and entice him or dirty talk.
2006-08-15 03:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by The One Truth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a book called 101 nights of great sex, the pages are folded over, you unfold one per night and do whatever is says. Try something like that, videos, toys.
2006-08-15 03:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy the book The Joy Of Sex.
2006-08-15 03:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start talking about your fantasy's or role playing. There are games out there that can keep the spice in the relationship. Most impotent is communication.
2006-08-15 03:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by zianlon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋