My mother-in-law hates me!
She tries to break my husband and I up. We have children. My husband won't stand up to her and if I do, I become the b%$#@. Someone has to be able to have an answer. I am a christian. This has been a test of faith for me! Please help!
2006-08-15 03:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by whit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes..I do. I won't even let the wench come over to my house. I NEVER go to her house. My husband is the same way. What his mama says goes...kinda like he can't speak or think for himself. But as long as she stays away and minds her own business then we're fine. i know exactly what you r going through...I bet your blood boils at the thought of spending anytime by her..or your husband talking to her behind your back because you need to know what kind of things she's filling his head with. Let me tell you..one time she and his sister entered the house while I was in the bathroom...just walked on in...I was so pissed I called the sheriff out to throw their butts out..just to teach them they can't just think they can do what ever they want. My husbands still here. it's a bad situation..when it comes to alot of things..for now the best way to do things is avoid each other all together.Theres always alot more to the story..you know..but If you are a christian you know your husband is suppose to be with his wife NOT his mother. I probably know more on this subject than most...if you need to talk more or need advice...you can e-mail me. But anyways...your husband needs to know the christian value of a marriage too...it's with you now..the children..Not his mother. Good Luck
2006-08-15 03:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband to stay out of your relationship with his mother.
This is going on in my marriage and I just stay away from thier fights. If I keep butting in they will neer resolve anything.
2006-08-15 03:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is with your husband not you mother in law. Get your minister to talk to your husband about who he should be most faithful to, you or his mother.
2006-08-15 03:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM THE DYSFUNCTION, I KNOW LONGER ASSOCIATE WITH MY MOTHER IN-LAW, OR MY STEP MOTHER IN-LAW. THEY ARE BOTH TOXIC AND I HAVE KNOW USE FOR THAT IN MY LIFE.
2006-08-15 03:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch monster in law-you might learn a coupla pointers from it!
2006-08-15 03:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by xyzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋