The person i like is goin out wit my friend, i really like him nd i mean we keep in touch we call each other nd talk nd we are usually together. He is the same age as me. What should i do should i wait till they brake up and ask him out or just give up??
2006-08-15 03:15:33 · 11 answers · asked by bluez_redz_nd_what13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i forgot to add i ment wait till the brake up nd then ask him out or give up on likeing him.
2006-08-15 03:16:35 · update #1
Well, he is goin to the movies wit me nd my friend tonight but i dont want it to be ocward also his girlfriend might come.
2006-08-15 06:06:49 · update #2
well i had the same thing happen to me but i did not realize that i liked him till my best friend went out with him (wierd)well they are not together anymore but i am too scared to ask him if he likes me but i waited until they broke up and alls that i have to do is gain some guts to do it
2006-08-15 03:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by I Luv ME!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. It's a tricky situation and chances are you may not like any solutions we come up with but I ask you do what you know is right and not be selfish.
Regardless of how close of friends you are you should respect their relationship. If you really like/love your friend and this guy you will wish them well and hope things work out for them.
Do not try to force a break-up this will lead to disaster.
I know staying quite is not easy and if your friend is understanding you may want to express to your friend that you have feelings for someone but that this someone has a girlfriend. See what she says.
If they do ever break up give them both time to heal. If you do get your chance to be with this guy ask for your friends blessing. Granted even if they didn't that doesn't mean you should deny your chances of a great relationship. Friends are important they are extended family that goes for girlfriends and boyfriends.
2006-08-15 10:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by J Greenhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say give up for now...obviously this guy doesn't have feelings for you the way you think he does because after all he's going out with someone who isn't you...look for other guys, and who knows, if they break up in the future, be sure to show affection towards him, but I wouldn't say ask him out. If he likes you like you want him too, HE will ask you out. That will prove to you that he really likes you!! But, if you do the asking, it might a bit forward and might ruin your friendship....good luck!
2006-08-15 10:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to the brake up and ask him out but don't ask him out like right after the brakeup.If he brakes up with ur friend comfort her first.
2006-08-15 10:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by catfeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him, but while you are waiting, flirt a little! If he likes you and realizes you like him, maybe he will come to you! Just dont wait your forever, or you might get your heart broken.
2006-08-15 10:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by Balzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's a particularly close friend, give up entirely, if she's more just a girl you know, wait for them to break up then make your move.
2006-08-15 10:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until they break up but wait a while after they break up or your friend will think tht you are a back stabber
2006-08-15 10:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one will do. Wait til they break up or stop liking him.
2006-08-15 10:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up unless you don't care about your friendship
2006-08-15 10:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by jednashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for a threesome.
2006-08-15 10:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋