All my other girl mates have deep meaningful friendships with their male friends, but i always end up meeting and making friends with the cheeky, idiotic fools! Why?
Even when they have only just spoken to me and hardly know me, they act like that...how come?
Examples:
They always do the opposite of what i say to get me angry/annoy me...
They make snide remarks to get a reaction...
They make funny/silly/disgusting/boyish jokes...
They are quite open with me about everything...
They like to bug me...
They dont stop talking to me, even when i dont want to...
the above is ok with someone i know for a long time, but what about those who i've only just recently met...why do i always end up with these guys!
2006-08-15 03:10:15 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The first thing you should do is to analyze yourself... There is a reason behind all these attitude that those guys show when they're around you. The way i see it is that.... they have had this idea that you hang around with guys like that and they tend to just continue with the trend to get your attention. try leaving them behind, or get yourself a little distant from them, and slowly change the manner on how you handle guys. If they see the difference in your acts, maybe they will act differently towards you too. If you manage to show them that you've changed in the way you react with them, they will surely notice it and will come to realize that they were not really being cute but were rather annoying. And most of all, find a way to let them know that you are not happy with their reactions towards you.
2006-08-15 03:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ma'am,It's possible they're trying to break the ice with you with the efforts of trying to see what you like and dislike, but it seems (no offense meant) you're making it a bit hard for them to do it. All those characteristics you stated above just describe a normal guy, not a "cheeky, idiotic fool". Get used to the fact that most of the men you will meet down your road of life will be like this, showing some or all of these characteristics, you'll just have to grin and bear it if you don't want to change or are searching for that special one.
2006-08-15 10:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by cradle2resurrection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, this is exactly how my brothers act. All 6 of them. Even if my friends rate my brothers seriously hot I still can't understand their appeal. So maybe all your male friends are as close to you as a brother might be. So enjoy dear. You are lucky to have so many brothers. Imagine the guys they can set you up with.
2006-08-15 10:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by nancy_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say your other friends have deep and meaningful relationships with their male friends, those male friends actually want to sleep with them.
Your male friends have a different way of showing it, perhaps because they feel they can get away with more when they're with you.
If you want genuine platonic friends, guys who fancy you aren't the best people to spend time with.
2006-08-15 10:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just havent met the right man yet...
From male point of view... I always end up with exactly the same as what you've described above... I'm sure we'll find decent people eventually! :o)
2006-08-15 10:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by crafty1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are they... They could be boys into slugs snails and puppy gods tails and got coodies... etc as young...
If they are deliberatley being mean to upset you then grab one thir nipples hard and twist (ainls too) this really hurts guys or a kick in the balls...then say anyone else got a smart mouth...?
All boy jokes are filly and sicusting...
They may just be triying to get you to chase them. thell them its upsetting you and to please stop it... if they do they are mates... if not kick on balls and nipple pinch.
(plus embarrasing getting beat up by a girl...)
Open about things? sound like they trust you
Not sure about them...
Guys usually respect girls who can kick their butt if they get out of line
Part freindly maybe not maybe they fancy you
2006-08-15 16:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence but maybe you must be thinking to yourself,why don't you think there's something wrong with you?Maybe it's you who allows them to act like that,just be a bit more formal on your first dates,do not laugh,do not make jokes,do not let them bring up personal subjects,and just behave yourself.
2006-08-15 10:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by soroush_1363_ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is they find you attractive and you don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing middle teen. Boys that age haven't really figured out yet how to be direct with their feelings about girls.
2006-08-15 10:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be setting yourself high standards,
You might have to take life a little less seriously
;)
2006-08-15 10:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by ryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure why guys do this but remember that maybe the problem could be with yopu and not them
2006-08-15 10:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by earthalien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋