ok normally I dont talk about things like this but I need to get some inside opinions. My bf has been talking to other girls online and I dont have a problem with that but one girl that he has been talking to the conversation they had bothered me. I am not a jealous person but I really dont know what to think about the conversation that I read in his archives in his yahoo messenger. He was telling this girl that he was planning on breaking off mine and his relationship. He was asking her to meet him and everything else. I have been with my bf since february but lately it seems like the relationship is falling apart. I am trying to hold the relationship together but I dont know if I am doing a good enough job. I am really scared right now cause I care for my bf deeply and my 3 year old daughter calls him daddy. He claims her as his own but sometimes I wonder. I tell him I love him all the time and I never hear it back anymore.this all started with taking my sisters kids in. He agreed2it
2006-08-15 03:09:44 · 9 answers · asked by forgetmenot79323 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should realize that this is just a HS romance and thats it. He doesn't love you and you can do better!
2006-08-15 03:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by rosecrashers1365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need to have a serious talk. He is already emotionally cheating on you with this online friend of his. Why would you allow this he should be talking to you about any relationship issues. It's very sad that your child is now involved in this and will probably be the most vulnerable if this relationship doesn't survive.
2006-08-15 10:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost...having your child call him daddy and you have only known him since February is wrong. Youare hurtiung the child while in the mist of your relationship. Second...move on..if he is telling the next person he is about to break up with you...it's evident...move on girl! Let him have his computer love..
2006-08-15 10:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS PRIORITY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't have to 'hold the relationship together'. You can't change someone, and you can't make then stay. Secondly, if you have to check his archives to see what he's been doing, there's no trust. He apparently has no intention of staying faithful or maybe even staying at all. If I were you, I'd start separating yourself from him, slowly so that your daughter can adjust to it too. Good luck! ;)
2006-08-15 10:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by FairyGirl73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your intuition is always right that is why you have it.Listen what most people call intuition I call your Holy Spirit and this spirit always warn us when something isn't right.do not ignore this warning,your daughter will have a better mom if you listen and do the right thing. he does not want you anymore and it's not your fault it's the way people are.the question is how much
2006-08-15 10:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sweetness in taking your sisters kids in has back fired. Can't your sisters take care of theirs. Too many people in the house is tough especially when they aren't his.
If you really like him, send the kids back and then have a one to one talk with him.
2006-08-15 10:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more than intuition.....you saw it in writing! Maybe your boyfriend feels he has taken on more than he can handle and it looking for someone who has no obligations. You NEED to talk to him about this because you don't want to wake up one morning and find he's gone.
2006-08-15 10:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to other psychics or intuitives about it. Right answers tend to be in parallel.
2006-08-15 10:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by overseas and broke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl ask hima about it u need better for u and ur child dont let this man hurt u
2006-08-15 10:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by greyeyebeauty81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋