i love my girlfriend completly i would give my life for her there is nothing to hard to try. we recently spent some time apart after which we decided to get back togerther the problems that through doubt into our relationship is the fact that she feels that i am the one for her but not at the moment. although i undrerstand what she is saying i can t help but feel that if this was true love should she not be concerded with other people. is it wise to stay in this relationship even though the potential for me getting really hurt (to late for that) after all dont they say that love conquers all.
2006-08-15 03:08:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When I was eighteen, I had a relationship with a guy, Tom, that I still love to this day. I knew at the time that we weren't right for each other, but that if we just waited a few years, things would work themselves out. Well, I do still love him, but he is definitely not the man for me. Even if I had not met my husband, Michael, Tom and I would not be together. I don't think you can really know what you will want years from now. If your girlfriend doesn't want to be together, then you probably shouldn't be. It is unfair to ask you to wait around though while she goes and plays the field. It sounds like she still has some wild oats to sow, while you are ready for more of a commitment. Good luck.
2006-08-15 03:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by a_thief_in_tamriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like your girlfriend is using that as an excuse to not make a commitment. What is that mean, "you are the one for her but not at the moment?" Look, love is an act of will. You choose to LOVE--it is not dependent on "feelings." The couples who have shared incredible love have all said that the road was not always an easy one to travel--and it was not all rosy, but that their commitment was greater than any barriers or probs on the way. I hope that you will not be stuck in a "romantic delusion," and believe she is the only one for you. There are many great women out there--esp ones that won't play mental games and be honest & upfront. Life is painful--you can not avoid it, but what doesn't kill you, will make you stronger. Good Luck!
2006-08-15 03:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are already in so deep I am inclined to say you should stay with it. HOWEVER if she is looking to get out there isn't much you can do. So give it a shot and see where it takes you but be prepared for the worst. And if the worst does come just remember that you never do know what tomorrow will bring, or who you will meet...
2006-08-15 03:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you are Mr right for her but not Mr right now. Get a Life With someone else. Get a New Girlfriend. Why? put your life and happiness on hold for her. What if she finds someone else and your left holding the bag of loneliness. It's ugly but you have to look out for number one. and I know that you ain't going to happy while she's doing the whole town.
2006-08-15 03:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋