i don't get it?

Question

[around age 13] how and what exactly will a boy say if he wants to have sex with you?

and would he be embarassed to ask?

but all i want to know is like how would he say it

Answer 1

It depends on the boy. If he is shy, he'll probably beat around the bush and not ask you straight out. If he's popular and cocky, he'll probably ask you straightout. But they'll usually ask when you are kissing and grinding pretty hard. And that's when it's hard to resist.

WORDS OF WISDOM: Don't try to lose your virginity at 13, you are too young and your body is too precious to give up to some boy at this age. Wait at least until you are 16 or 18 and you have a steady boyfriend that you love and you think loves you back.

I lost my virginity at 13 and I'll regret it for the rest of my life. The boy barely liked me and I gave it up to him cause I thought it would change me somehow (make me more out going, more popular). But it really just made me more confused and more lonely. Please wait, don't make the same mistake I did.

Good luck!

Answer 2

At that age a boy or girl has no business what so ever having sex.

Its hard enough for two adults to avoid an unwanted pregnancy, let alone two hormonal children.

Whatever he might say to have sex with you, you should just avoid the situation all together and spend more time perfecting social skills that you require for your age, like friendships.

Adult relationships are best left for adults. It only seems your grown when you're a teenager, but youre really not.

Answer 3

At age 13 you shouldn't be having sex. I'm not saying wait until you are married (at little unrealistic now days), but you should at least try to wait until you are an adult (18 years old). Most likely if you have sex at such an early age (i.e. now) you will regret it later when you get into a more meaningful relationship later on and you no longer have that experience to share.

Answer 4

Age 13 is way too young to be having sex. You need to wait until you are old enough to legally hold a job in case you get pregnant so you can financially support a child.

Answer 5

Boys are never embarrassed to ask. Nowadays, it seems like guys that age are more afraid of asking a girl out instead of asking for sex, but your answer should be easy....NO!

Answer 6

my bf at that age was kinda shy but then he said to me do you want to have well you know sex and i said sorry baby but i want to wait till we are older and i am glad i waited cuz the second time i really had sex i got pregnant and had a son who is now 6 months old and i am 17 and still with that same bf

Answer 7

boyz these dayz r not ashamed 2 ask...he would probally just come flat out nd b like "do u wanna do it" or sumefin like dat
not tryina sound like ya mom or nuffi cuz we're around the same age but u should say no

Answer 8

well he probably WONT ask trust me i lost my virginity at 13. First you guys are going to be alone right? then you guys start making out and taking each others clothes off and etc. Nowadays we dont ask we go with the flow.

Answer 9

i doubt he would exactly say it to you. he would probably be like "so do you want to go up to my room" or "wanna go in the basement" ... then that would be like saying wanna go have some fun/ have sex.

Answer 10

Doesn't matter because if you are 13, you have NO business having intercourse!