Go to your gyn and get a blood test! It could be something else too! You really need to talk to your mom about this. Don't bew scared to talk to mom. Believe me she will understand and help you out!
2006-08-15 03:10:35
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answered by colleen3273 3
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Hey first of all I know what you are going through. I am 24 yrs old and I got pregnant when I was only 16. I know you are probably really scared so was I. What I did after about 2 months of not having a period is I finally got up the nerve to go to a free woman's health clinic and get a test. I had a couple of my friends take me. When they told me that I was going to have a baby I was terrified. I didn't know how I was going to tell my parents. But like you abortion was not even a possibility. I eventually told my parents and of coarse at first they were very hurt but as time went by everything got to be ok. I now have a very beautiful son who just started first grade. I thank God for him every day. I guess what I want to tell you is that you are not alone and don't be scared. You need to find out if you are and if you are then you need to schedule an appointment with a doctor. You will have to start taking vitamins. Its gonna be hard for you I won't lie because most kids your age won't be in the same situation as you but you will get through it and it will be ok. If you are not pregnant then I would take this scare as a warning and stop having sex. Wait until your older and out of school. If you want to or need someone to e-mail you can e-mail me at danerachel@yahoo.com anytime you need to.
2006-08-15 03:50:20
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answered by Anonymous
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BEING WORRIED CAN CAUSE THE SAME SYMPTOMS.... First of all, calm down and rest assured that you have a friend.... ME, Julie. Let's go through the routine list of who you feel comfortable talking to and conveying the feelings that you have in that you could possibly be pregnant. And I mean adults... Do you have a friend in whom their mother you would feel comfortable talking to? What about your own Mom? Your Grand Mom or Auntie? Is there an adult cousin or sister in your family that you could confide in?
I suggest that you choose the one in which you will trust and 'come clean' with them. Open your heart and express your deepest fears (maybe that mom and/or dad are going to be really mad, etc.). Then follow that adults instructions in getting a pregnancy test done so that you can have the facts and better know what you're workin with.
If pregnant, I suggest that you keep the seceret no longer and for the sake of your unborn child that you seek and obtain the best professional help possible (if money is an issue, contact you local DHR office and they have assistance for unwed mothers). Your parents may be mad to start with but once the baby arrives, you'll be surprised just how much they will change.
Best wishes and just know that if you find you can't trust anyone, send me an email and we'll hook up....... I'll help you, I've been there, in your shoes, just as scared, and I'm living proof that there is something wonderful just around the corner.
2006-08-15 03:29:13
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answered by Julie 2
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Take a pregnancy test, or have blood work done at a local clinic, you dont need a parent or money.
Chances are you're just skipping a period, which is normal for teenagers.
You really dont have any business having sex unti lyou're an adult and can handle adult relationships. Its hard enough for a grown person to avoid an unwanted pregnancy, let alone for a hormonal child to do the same.
If you dont want babies dont make them, i know its hard, but atleast you wont have to worry about whether or not youre pregnant.
2006-08-15 03:10:36
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answered by amosunknown 7
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I am sorry to say, but it seems like from all of the signs and symptoms you have supplied, it is a possibility that you are pregnant. What you should do is go to a clinic or to a drug store and get a pregnancy test and you should tell the guy who you had sex with the situation. Also, you should tell your family. You should not have been having sex at your age anyway and now your life is now focused on a baby.
2006-08-15 04:15:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Haven't you people ever heard of those things called a doctor who gives those things called a blood test!!!!! U know how many times I say this a day.... blood test is the most accurate way to determine whether or not you are pregnant... If you can't afford that I am sure there is a free health clinic in your area you could go to... they can help!!!
2006-08-18 13:40:47
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are not sure then the only way to be positive is to have a test. You should have a local health department that will provide these test for you free of charge. Or you can by and over the counter test, however these are not always accurate. I would consolate with a local clinc to be absolutely positive. Being 15 no one is ready to deal with that, you need to be responsible for your actions and take of yourself and your possible child.
2006-08-15 03:11:32
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answered by Hotbox25 2
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1) Go take a pregnancy test.
2) If pregnant, talk to your mom and come up with a plan. Adoption is good option, there are so many childless couples that really want babies. Or figure out how to keep it with your family's help.
3) If you're not pregnant, still talk to your mom and go to the doctor to find out what's wrong.
PLEASE TAKE ACTION NOW. The longer you wait, the more risk to your potential baby and definitely to yourself. When you are pregnant you need to eat better and take special vitamins so that your baby come out healthy.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 03:32:48
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answered by curious_maya 3
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u can get a blood test but if u dont believe that u can always go get an ultrasound when u r like 6 weeks cuz even tho u might not see the baby u will be able to hear the baby's heartbeat
2006-08-15 03:41:40
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answered by sexielyse0604 2
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First, off honey they best thing to do Is to take a pregnancy test or tell your parents and have them take you to the doctor for a blood test for they are 100% accurate, I know you are scared but sooner or later your parents are going to find out, you need proper pre-natal care for you and your baby If you have decide to keep the baby, If you are pregnant! ((GoOd LuCk)) and I hope everything works out for you!
2006-08-15 03:14:55
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answered by twofroggiesand1princess 3
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