We'll there this guy i've known him for like a year and he's like my best guy friend. i really like him but can't tell if he likes me. i catch him staring and he teases me like flirting. but one day he talks and hang around me alot but the next he is like nervuos to be around me-i think? so wat should i do i'm really shy though and i don't think i can't just ask him if he likes me.PLEZ HELP
2006-08-15 02:50:33 · 27 answers · asked by lacey j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey, he MUST like you or he wouldn't be hanging around! He's just shy, like you are. Here is a great ice breaker; always have something on hand (snack, candy, gum) to share with him; or give him a notebook or something small. Catch him when he's alone and you can talk. Guys act weird when other guys are around them. Write him a note "meet me by the bus stop at 3:00"...and she if he shows up....if he does, you'll know he likes you. When he gets there, just laugh and have fun without any pressure!
2006-08-15 02:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a best friend in school that was a girl and even after graduation she was my best friend. We did everything together hung out all the time even worked together at one point. I myself did not know my true feelings for her until the day she told me she was getting married. At that point I felt a heart break like I had never felt before. I lost my chance and she by far has been the only one in my life that I regret never hooking up with. I would of spent a life time trying to keep her happy and she got away. I found at that point I loved her more than I've ever loved anybody. I guess in essence, I let my soul mate get away. Huge regrets with her. Tread with caution but I will say this, if he ever goes to get married, your relationship with him will change drastically and probably not the way you would want. His wife will make sure of that! It's just the nature of the beast.
2006-08-15 10:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by shaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think he likes your hun. You should get your feelings out. Because you are shy I think maybe sitting down and writing him a note and telling him how you feel may be the best way to go. This way you can get every thing you want to say out without clamming up, shutting down, or just changing the subject. GOOD LUCK! ;)
2006-08-15 10:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same predicament as well. I always catch my best guy friend starting at me.
ie. i was @ his house one day watching tv...i had that feeling being watched and i look over into his room and he is staring at me. he did it for a couple of sec. and didn't realize it and sorta snapped out of it.
your guy seems to like u too. im shy too and i can't ask my friend too. let him come to you. he will eventually say something to you. he's probably sooo sweet to you one day then an a$$ hole the next.
hope this helps. good luck girl!
2006-08-15 09:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm answering as a boy.
When I like a girl every time that she is around me I becom nervuos an becom red. I think he likes you .
2006-08-15 09:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by eternity_hub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His nervousness is when he is trying to go beyond flirting.
He wants it to be more then that, but feels awkward in which way to approach you about it.
Or he may become nervous when he thinks he is crossing that line that goes beyond friendship and he does not want to do that.
The best way to find out is to ask him if he wants to join you in something you may want to do for a few hours.
Just take it as a friendship thing, but see if he wants to join you in doing something. Get him to help you move something or whatever. Give yourself and him a chance to be together, but doing something.
2006-08-15 10:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say ask yourself how much do you like this person ?do you really feel comfortable around him? can you say whatever to him and still feel comfortable?would you mind not being his friend ?that's a possibility if you change the friendship into something more.If you take the time to think clearly you will answer your own questions.
2006-08-15 10:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't ask him yourself, you might end up loosing something that could be one of the best thing that could ever happen to you... Maybe you could write him a letter, or have one of your closes friends see what's up.. But if you tell him, he'll know how you feel, then you could know exactly how he feels! You can do it!!!!Just ask him......
2006-08-15 10:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you and is feeling the same way you do, about not being sure if you like him. Tell him. I mean all he can say is he doesn't feel the same way, but then you will know. That's the worst that can happen.
2006-08-15 09:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by lucyinthesky111l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push it your going to need a condom and birth-control pills next.
This isn't '' flirting '' but more to my experience '' wanting ''.
Take some fresh air go with your girlfriends and hangout at a fair , go to a museum make yourself interesting. Feed your brain and not your hormones your not ready yet.
2006-08-15 11:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Carmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋