What are benefits of premarital sex? Heard so much about the cons of it already! Please help!!!! :-)?

Question

I will be doing a presentation on premarital sex
but i dont want to be bias
so I have to state the benefits or at least not to offend people with different views.

Answer 1

I have a few reasons that might work for you. Good luck on the presentation!

(1) Part of being compatible with someone is sexual compatibility. Sex may not be that important to everyone, but, especially in our society, sex does matter. So if you're a mis-match in that area, it actually can affect your relationship negatively. If you dont have sex until marriage you wont know how compatible you are with your partner in that particular area of the relationship.

(2) The term pre-marital carries with it the fact that there WILL be a marriage, since you're talking about sex before the marriage. If you're engaged to someone then why would it be bad to sleep with someone you're going to marry? Sex is a beautiful symbol of the connection between two people, not a beautiful symbol of having a marriage certificate.

(3) Why do we think premarital sex is wrong? Because of religion...supposedly God thinks its a no-no. But do you really think God bases his opinion based on a marriage certificate, which is only a legal document? At what point do you think God would say that two people are married? Chances are its based on the feelings between the two people, and since you feel those feelings long before marriage, maybe God considers two people married long before the state (the law) does.

Answer 2

Benefits Of Premarital Sex

Answer 3

It sounds like an over simplification of the problem to me. Aren't marriages in Egypt normally arranged marriages? It's not surprising that one of the people in a marriage that they did not initiate has a lower desire to have sex with their spouse. In Western countries it's different. Two people can date for quite a while and discuss their relative sexual desires. Taking someone to bed for a "test drive" means very little since both people presumably want to have sex with one another at that point. And what if the "test drive" is unsatisfactory? Do young people go around like dogs trying out as many potential partners as they can until the find the "right fit"? In the meantime they risk sexually transmitted diseases, unplanned pregnancy, and they can become jaded when it comes to having sex so that it is no longer and act of love between two committed people but just a physical act to satisfy a desire like eating food or going to the bathroom and love doesn't play a part in it. Premarital sex is a risky business, it's sinful in God's eyes, and it robs a young couple of having something special that they have only shared with one another as opposed to having a wedding ceremony where some of the guests can talk about how they have had sex with the bride or groom before the person to whom they are getting married.

Answer 4

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What are benefits of premarital sex? Heard so much about the cons of it already! Please help!!!! :-)?
I will be doing a presentation on premarital sex
but i dont want to be bias
so I have to state the benefits or at least not to offend people with different views.

Answer 5

You learn whether you're sexually compatable
Sex is an expression of love and an important step in a relationship - that doesn't have to mean the same things as marriage
Living together is good too because you learn whether you can really get along with someone

Answer 6

well - as a good girl who has always believed that sex wasn't something to be taken lightly - I found that premarital sex had a kind of fun naughty quality to it. Being the good girl it was just assumed that i was waiting to get married. End of the day I've still only slept with one person - but it was more fun before we got married cos we had to sneak around since we lived with our parents. Also - being experienced makes for a FANTASTIC wedding night - hehe :)

Answer 7

1. How about finding out if you're sexually compatible before committing yourself to a lifetime of disappointment, or worse cheating?

2. By experimenting with people who you may not neccessarily want to marry you discover how to be more selective. You will hone your skills of selection, so to speak.

3. Experience. The more you do something, the better you become at it. Do you really want to feel nervous about having sex on your wedding night because you're afraid, or do you want to be confident and be able to enjoy the moment?

4. Variety is the spice of life. So spice up your life. Even if you do settle down, you will always have those memories. The events don't shape who you are, it is who you are that shapes events.

5. You won't develop sexual neuroses as easily as those who wait too long. The longer you imagine what sex will be like, without actually finding out, the greater your chances are that you will instill in yourself some pretty freaky beliefs. Especially if you believe what everyone tells you. The only way to know is to find out, and quickly.

6. There's less pressure on performance. If you don't please someone who you haven't made a commitment to, then there's no loss. You can always move on. Whereas, one who is your marriage partner has a lot of hope invested in your performance. If you have had no experience you may let them down.

7. Because you owe it to yourself to live a little before you settle down. Before there are any rules laid down, why not find out who you are? Sex is a great form of self discovery.

8. And most of all, because people are fantastic. Why would you want to limit yourself to one choice based on an outdated notion of purity? That concept is null and void in today's world. You may just be the person who gives someone the reason to live their life to the fullest just because you shared your body in passion with them. It doesn't have to be anything more than a friendly exchange. Just more intimate, and meaningful. Even one night stands can be meaningful, if you have the right attitude.

9. Because it teaches you that no person belongs to you. People are not property. Those who believe so are living in a fantasy world. The more sexual experiences you have with a variety of people will temper your need to possess. You will regard people as their own entities, and appreciate them much more.

10. Because you deserve to have pleasure. Life is too short. Make each decision in life increase happiness. You should always have time enough for love.

That's all I can think of for now.

Answer 8

The ONLY advantage of pre-marital sex (other than instant self gratification) is that you know if the other person can perform, or if they are only talk. There are alot of people who can talk a good game on the telephone, but when you get face to face, they can't seem to think of anything meaningful to talk about.

Answer 9

It allows you to explore your sexuality, allowing you to grow in a way that you wouldn't if you stayed hooked to one person. You learn more about pleasing others, pleasing yourself, and understanding others as well.

It helps to make you a more well rounded person and a better lover with more experiences and partners under your belt. Because the reality that sex as virgins is either a painful, funny, or pathetic experience.

Answer 10

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