my friend told me she is sneaking out to have sex she is 15 and i don't agree with her, so should i telland hurt our friendship or just let her do it?
2006-08-15 01:59:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your friend is going to get a reputation and quick especially if its with more than one guy. You are better off keeping to yourself and worrying about your own actions. Maybe she isn't the type of "friend" you want for yourself after all? Maybe you should find new friends? I'm 33. Just a suggestion.
2006-08-15 02:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are close friends, then I think you should tell her howl you feel. If she were to get pregnant or contract a disease, you would feel awful if you didn't try to talk some sense into her. This way, at least you'll know that you did what you could. If you feel that she is not going to change her behavior, then tell her you'll go to planned parenthood with her to get checked out. Give her a box of condoms .
2006-08-15 02:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by pugluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you being her friend need to be sure you are out to protect her best interests. You need to remember at 15 she is not thinking about pregnancy, stds, aids, PID, and her parents need to catch her in the act.... maybe you could tell them to stay up at night to see what they find out... you are not telling then.
2006-08-15 02:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to have another heart to heart talk with her so she understands the risks she is exposing herself to. A reputation, STDs, AIDS, and of course pregnancy.
If she continues you may have to confide in her parents what is happening. You probably don't want to ruin your freindship with her, but its better then watching her struggle with a baby or fight with HIV.
2006-08-15 02:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her why you think it's such a bad idea, that you care about her and don't want her in trouble. Then calmly tell her you feel so strongly about this that you feel you have no choice other than to tell her parents
2006-08-15 02:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anonomously email her mom...like as a boy she's done it with or just a randomn girl in town who has seen her with the guys...yeah it may seem mean, but her om will then know and it won't hurt your friendship.
2006-08-15 03:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by A*n*o*n*y*m*o*u*s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend is doing that too and we are only 13, i dont know what to say to her, the people she is doing it with are up to 3 years older than her, its scary
2006-08-15 02:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an annoymous call to her house and tell her parents that way she wnt know it was you and u 2 can still be friends
2006-08-15 04:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hurting her is going to save her from getting raped or pregnant, i say tell her.if you have to, teel either her parents or yours. that way youll save everyone a whole lot of trouble.
2006-08-15 03:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by yello-w=lab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
niether u have to talk to ur friend about it and tell her ur very worried and u want the best for her.
2006-08-15 02:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by x_brunett4life_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋