someone i really love is taking X. i am really scared for him. i love him alot. we have been friends for years. he dont want to do them. but, being on the X is controling his mind and causing him to say things he dont mean. how could you help someone you love
get off X before it kills them? the good thing is the real them loves me,but the drugged out them is confused and dont want love. how do i help them?????
2006-08-15 01:58:17 · 5 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
RUN RUN RUN.. Don't let them drag you down the gutter with them.
2006-08-15 02:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is easier to run the other way, but, if you truly in your heart know that you love this guy...you will suffer alot of humility, pain, heartache, and go through days where you feel isoloted from everything and everyone. The things that are said to you while he's under the influence of this drug are going to be hearwrenching. The best thing for you to do is reach out for help (unfortunately everyone's advice is usually for you to run). Talk to his family, close friends...anyone who would be influential in his life. Reality, he needs to want to stop or get help...or...by getting family invoved they can sign paperwork to have him baker-acted into a treatment facility. It will only be legally binding fo r72 hours, but will help to clear his head that he can make decisions to get additional help (they will advise him on options for that while he is there).
I have been through this with someone I love very much. I was told that I should "run" by everyone incuding his family .
The odds are against us, as well as the ones we try to help. But, I will encourage you by saying...I have a husband today that loves me for not giving up and our relationship has reached levels I never knew could exist.
Just don't forget to take care of yourself to keep strong throught the process.. join a support group and get involved with positive people. I channeled alot of exercise and have and continue to pray that the peace I have in my world now continues and blossoms....
I wish you the very best of luck..I will pray for you and for you love..This is not an easy road and I feel your pain.
2006-08-15 09:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never known anyone on drugs so Im prob not the best, but maybe you could try talking to them when they're not stoned?
Maybe videotape them when they're unaware and play it back to them might help too?
Alternatively get them to speak to a councellor or something?
I wish you all the best
2006-08-15 09:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you might have to hurt him to save his life.
Tell his parents; tell teachers, coworkers and possibly even the police if he has enough to share.
Breaking him might be necessary to save him; he might hate you now, but he might thank you later.
2006-08-15 09:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay far away from him before he hurts you. He is lost to the great looser beyond.
2006-08-15 09:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋