im not sure who the father of my baby is-can i find out before babys born?

Question

i'm 11 weeks pregnant and am not sure who the father is.
first there is my partner who is white, been together over a year we've been haven unprotected sex for a while.
secondly theres a one night stand, who is black, but used a condom and the condom looked as tho it had *** in it after

my first day of last period was 26th may my ovulation works out to be the 9th june, i had the one night stand on the 13th june is there a chance the baby could be the other mans. my partner knows that the baby may not be his but wants nothing to do wit me until i find out for sure the baby is definately his-is there a way of finding this out before the baby is born-asap-maybe from finding out the actual day i concieved or the colour of the baby

if the baby is not my partners im being disowned my my parents chucked out of home and will be a jobless single mum so need to know

Answer 1

According to your LMP: June 26, 2006
You Concieved on: June 10, 2006
Your Due Date is: April 2, 2007
You are 7 1/7 Weeks Along (not 11 weeks)

According to the Conception date, you could not have concieved by the one-night stand. Sperm can live 3-5 days inside the woman's body, The egg will only live for 24 hours. Also, if he was wearing a condom, and it did not leak or break, it is unlikely that he is the father.

If you had intercourse with your long time boyfriend, anytime during June 5th-12th, it is highly possible that he is the father of your baby. From June 5th-9th ... you could have a girl...from June 9th-12th ... you could have a boy. Or you could have either.

I believe that your boyfriend is the father of your baby. I can't see the egg living past 24 hours from ovulation to the 13th, with possible conception on the 10th and ovulation on the 9th. It is very unlikely that your one night stand is the father.

Other than having a paternity test done, you will have to wait till the baby is born and see if it is mixed with black or if it is white. And this isn't always a good indicator either. You didn't state your race, either.

Best of Luck and hope this helped.

Answer 2

Condoms are not 100 % effective at preventing pregnancy. So, it is possible your baby's father is your one night stand. I am not aware of a method to determine paternity until after the baby is born. You will need a DNA sample from you, your baby, and both men to determine which man is most likely the father. Your current partner may have trouble ever trusting you again even if the baby is his. If you plan to keep the baby, you will have the next 6 months to get your life in order and prepare yourself to be a possible single mom on your own. Consider adoption, it may be best for all, especially the baby. Then wait to have a baby when you are in a committed, stable marriage.

Answer 3

Ignore all the haters sweetie. People make mistakes and people should be more forgiving.. there are two options that you can consider.. amniocentesis and CVS, before the baby is born. Here's some facts for you..

You also have to have a doctor's permission.. so get to see yours as soon as possible, though generally I dont think they do either procedure before 18ish weeks.

The risk of amnio causing a miscarraige is what doctors call small - between 1 in 200 or 1 in 400 depending on your research source. You have to decide for yourself what risk is to high, because it is different for every woman. There is also a risk for intrauterine infection which is less than 1 in 1000. (per http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/681_1164.asp)

The risk of miscarraige is slightly higher with CVS, the numbers change from between 1 in 100 or 1 in 200 depending on your source. Other risks include missing or shortened fingers, toes, and limbs due to suction during sample collection. Limb defects occur in approximately 1 in 1,700 babies. (per http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/681_1165.asp)

You can find more numbers at the Center for Disease Control search website (http://wonder.cdc.gov/wonder/prevguid/m0038393/m0038393.asp)

Hope this helps :) Don't stress yourself out too much, it's not good for the baby.

Answer 4

Yes, there is a way to find out who the father is before the baby is born the guy u had a one night stand with take him to the doctor with u and have them do a DNA test not sure what it is called when the baby is still in the womb. But that way you'll find out before your boyfriend and can decide what to do from there don't wait to long. Because u may want a abortion if the baby's not your boyfriends'.

Answer 5

You can have a pretnatal paternity test, but the procedures that are most reliable in determing prenatal paternity (amniocentesis or CVS) are pretty risky procedures. They are also expensive.

I think you may need to take a little responsibility for your actions on this one. From your details, it seems like the possibility that the one night stand is the father is unlikely. If I were you, I would just be patient and accept the consequences of my actions. The outcome would be the same no matter when you find out the father of the baby...unless you are considering abortion.

Answer 6

Under emergency circumstances, you can get a sample of the baby's
genes with amnicentisis. If you have a sample of DNA from the possible
fathers, you can do a comparison and find out which is the likely father.

Note that these companies that you send DNA samples off to aren't the
most reliable thing in the world. The doctor performing the amnio will
have recommendations.

Are you sure your parents will disown you? Most parents love their
children more than that, regardless of whether or not they are sleeping
around unresponsibly.

Answer 7

i am sorry for you....i won't put you down for this because i know that you are human and everyone makes bad choices in thier lives. i will say though that i hope that you have learned from your mistakes .....anyways to answer your question i am pretty sure that you will have to wait until after the baby is born to find out who fathered the baby with a paternity test. ..i personnally think that your baby will turn out to belong to your partner only because you did use a condom with the black guy....but still get the test done just for your and your guy's peice of mind. i hope that everything turns out good for you and that you have a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby. good luck.

Answer 8

You can have a amniocentisis done but there is a 1 in 200 chance of miscarriage. You have it done at 5 months...or you can wait till the baby is born, and have a DNA test done

Answer 9

There is a way to find out before the baby is born, the baby has to be a certian amount of weeks old, I'm not sure right now. The best thing to do is see a docor and ask him/her about it and if it is the safest thing to do. It may cost quite a bit of money though, but if it means a lot to you then do it.

Answer 10

you could get an Amniocentesis done (the fluid that surrounds the fetus in the womb) or CVS (the chorionic villi that makes up the placenta).they also use this method to find out if your baby is alright, or may have downs syndrome, but there is high risk of miscarriage with this procedure