I'm 43 w/t 4 kids, my friends told me that i'M PRETTY AND SEXY AND HAVE A VERY STRONG SEX APPEAL. and i have a suitor. my hubby is working in another country for 5 yrs. now, and we dont know when he is coming back.im here with our children. there are times that i want a kiss, embrase, caress me and have sexual intercourse but i want the true penis, i dont want toys or any other, pls. help i dont want to cheat.
2006-08-15 01:14:08 · 22 answers · asked by glam 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Something is wrong here. I smell a rat.
I suspect you are not a female after all
You all have the same pattern..
2006-08-18 16:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, serious answer. If your husband is working in another country (assuming he's not in the military) for 5 years, how come you're here and not with him?
If he is in the service and not in Iraq or a combat zone, then he doesn't need to serve 5 years on an unaccompanied tour.
I haven't heard of people serving 5 years in Iraq unless they volunteer beyond 3 rotations and if that's the case, there's something wrong with the marriage.
I'm not going to sit here and tell you to cheat on your husband, even though I can understand how frustrating it must be. Quite frankly, I'd look at the entire marriage and then make a determination whether it is a good one in the first place. If you decide to cheat, consider the consequences. There's always the possibility that he finds out through some silly coincidence and then ask yourself what's going to happen and if he doesn't find out, can you live with it?
2006-08-15 01:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't cheat! If you want to stay committed to Ur husband and you truly care for him then I suggest it's best for you not to cheat...do something productive each day to get you mind out of the gutter...when you feel like you need someone why not give Ur husband a call, and talk to him let him know how Ur feeling. Since you say he's working in another country and it's been 5 years, why not go visit him? I'm sure you both would love that, and maybe a family member could take care of the kids for a weekend or so...but I wouldn't recommend cheating on ur husband Hun...you'll regret it later...think about Ur kids and husband...hope this helped...good luck in making the right decision...
2006-08-15 01:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat, who knows what that could do to your husband, marriage and children. But you might need to talk to your husband. How is he surviving with no sex, or kisses? Do you think he has been 100% faithful. Maybe you both need a small getaway and time alone. 5 days 4 nights somewhere nice. In the mean time stay away from the friend, what kind of friend is he to try to break up your marriage.
2006-08-15 01:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best for you to do without resorting to cheating, is probably call your husband and tell him about this, You will probably come to some sort. have phone sex, whereby you will still be able to hear your husbands voice and pleasure yourself at the same moment, cheating whilst your husband is aways is probably the easiest way out, but can you live with the long term guilt. If you discuss this with him imsure you two toghether rationally like adults will come to some sort of agreement
2006-08-15 01:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i am sure that your feelings are strong. you obviously have a strong sexual desire, and that is understandable. you did however take vows to be honest, and truthful to your husband. the friend that told you this might know that you are vulnerable right now. he might also have the same sexual need, and he is just taking advantage of your situation.
if there is a way that you can possibly go and see your husband i would go and do that. if you are having these desires, it is best to act them out with someone that you know loves you for who you are, not for WHAT you look like.
2006-08-15 01:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by rabika97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you ladies are hot like that,nothing can quench your thirst for amorous things..So it is ladies nature ,,you cant beat it ..since you dont want to cheat ( good moral).Then enter into swimming & excersise program ,,Watch less porno,,Do social things..All gurantee to take you away from the world of penis &pusies..You will be ok and you will never regret the program..I hope i have been helpful..thanx for the question.
2006-08-15 01:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by qwerty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok babe its typical that you feel you need these things that are absent.And by all means having kids and being alone is hard.Id say talk to your man and tell him how its working.Not that you dont love him or anything but that its hard being a woman and haveing kids and not feeling that true pleasure.It will drive ya nuts hun.
2006-08-15 01:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by SweetPea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take on a hobby! Somethings can be better than sex. Like racing! Something that will give you an adrenaline rush!
2006-08-15 01:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to want your marriage more than an affair because once you go down this block your marriage is over and believe me when I say once that's all it takes and don't think your just going to do it once and that's going to be the end of it once you've tasted the candy and it's good you WILL go back for more
DON'T CHEAT IT'S NOT WORTH IT
GOOD LUCK
2006-08-15 01:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋