do I go on looking or call it a day?
2006-08-15 01:12:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first wife and I drifted apart, second was a closet gambler till after we got married then she "came out"
2006-08-15 01:26:34 · update #1
put on your crap england shirt that you got in china for £15 , have a good cry and use the shirt to wipe away the tears, lfc forever, 18 championships, 5 european cups, 7 league cups could go on but you might not see with all the tears in your eyes
ps. buy a blow up doll
2006-08-15 08:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on it but don't go looking for it.
Feeling lonely does make you vulnerable, and it stops you seeing things in the right perspective.
If you get emails as a result of this question, enjoy the contact but be wary . There are a lot of people clutching at straws.
2006-08-15 09:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by ragdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 24yrs and was divorced two yrs ago.I never went out too much for the 1st year I took that time to reflect on who I really am & what I really want,most of all what I really dont want & how to keep away from it.I am now very positive & confident of myself & I always attract the men when I go out,(which is every weekend now), but I leared to pick & choose only the best & to take things very very slow.
2006-08-15 08:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by christiblu101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time i am once divorced and i never wanted to get married again. so i had it in my head to only go out to have a good time. Like just hang out with some friends. Never to hook up with someone i figured when the time was right someone would come along. And he did we have been married for 5 years and it feels like we have been together our whole lives.
2006-08-15 08:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by ms01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should reflect on your past experiences and see where you may have gone wrong and try not to make the same mistake again. Also travelling helps I would reccomend that you should pack your bags and go some where different for few days and reflect!
2006-08-15 08:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by amir786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the right one will come along when you least expect it. You don't have to go looking for it....let it find you. It will find you when you are ready to move on and start over with someone else. Until then just be happy being single.
2006-08-15 08:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going through a divorce right now , and I feel exactly how you are feeling, try to get out, put your mind in something else than this, I will start theraphy next mont, maybe it will help . You should try that to see how you feel. God bless.
2006-08-15 11:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by earline0521@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on getting rid of your emotional baggage from the last two marriages, before trying again.
My husband was married twice before, and he brought a bunch of junk into our relationship, and now we are separated.
work on yourself and hang in there. It's tough.
2006-08-15 08:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time for yourself. Don't try rushing things. When the right person comes along it will just happen naturaly and will work out.
2006-08-15 08:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything when you are feeling vulnerable! One day the right person will come along.
Hang on in there!
2006-08-15 08:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by A G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋