Ok well today i mean right about a hours ago i woke up with this scresming down the hall way and it was my mom and i thought she was talking to my dad saying that he needs to stop yelling and stuff but she wasnt talking to him either then i thought she was talking to my her workers bf and that wasnt it either . she was talking to her bf and she is married she was saying that u need to grow up and talk to him cause i guess this guy said sum thing bout my mom and her bf`s relationship and about my brother any way she was saying that on saturday night him and her r going out to dinner to settle this thing that happened . any way i went out side and started to cry cause i didnt want my dad to get hurt but he already nos so when i came in my mom was all like y were u out side and my r u not a sleep and i said i woke up by yelling she goes well sum driver (she owns her own trucking buz) called yelling @ he saying that he called my worker and didnt get the number he needed she lied to me
2006-08-15 00:57:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
right off the back she did y would she lie and go out with sum other guy but she is married and has a family what do i do i need good advice ??? help plz help !!!!
2006-08-15 00:59:01 · update #1
I am 13 yo by the way
2006-08-15 02:49:23 · update #2
Bottom line is that you can't control what adults do. Just concentrate on you and your school so that when you graduate you can get out and start a normal life for yourself.
2006-08-15 01:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry for the pain your in. Your mother doesnt want you to know she has a bf, it must be hard for you and certainly not easy for your dad. Maybe you could get your parents together tell your mum you know the truth, ask her what is going to happen is your family breaking up. Let them know how you are feeling this concerns you as well you dont need to hide this secret.
2006-08-15 08:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you???
if your parents get divorce , there is nothing you can do. you can still see both parents.
my nephew is 13yr and his parents got divorce a month ago and he sees both parents, but lives with his dad, so he goes to same school.
she lied because she thought you dont know about her b/f, maybe tell her that you know.
and she didnt want to hurt you or to scare you.
you need to sit down with both your mom and dad and say:
Mom, dad. I know whats going on. and they say what? and then you say I know mom has a b/f. are you 2 getting a divorce? and then listen.
2006-08-15 08:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so what i got from this is that your mom is screwing around on your dad and you found out and she lied to you about it right? well if that's tha case then you need to tell her that you know she lied to you and you heard it all. then you need to explain how this makes you feel and maybe just maybe if she is more worried about you then this "other guy" she will make the right decision.
2006-08-15 08:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by blueyedattitiude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your mom,tell her you know whats going on and that you think she should grow up...how could she lie to you and be so unresponsible about things,...
2006-08-15 08:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by cutiestnowgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHH??
2006-08-15 08:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by amit g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋