You know what U want how do U tell the other person?

Question

I have made a decision. I now know what I want to do. Yet, it will hurt someone's feelings. How do I say what I want? I just don't have the courage to do it. It will be a life changing event, but I know I want it to happen.

Answer 1

Right now you must be feeling miserable. You just tell the person what you want to tell them and be done with it. Be fair to the other person and answer the questions they have the best you can. You will feel much better and that person will feel better once you are honest.

Answer 2

The only thing to do now is just say it. It may hurt this person's feelings, but if your sure this is what you want then straight up tell this person and be done with it.

Answer 3

Well I'm not sure what it is that you want to tell them....but you already know that you need to tell them. So, I would just tell them straight out...don't try to sugar coat it. Just get to the point and do it quick. It's kinda like pulling a band-aid off...do it quick and get the pain over with.

Answer 4

You better make sure you doing the right thing and be ready for any thing that say to you but you a big girl go ahead.

Answer 5

Tell them, but couch it first. Say "I have something I need to tell you and it's not going to be easy". Then tell them.

That's the only way. Be kind, but do it for yourself.

Answer 6

tell them straight out, get to the point... its gonna hurt them, but if you delay, it will only hurt them worse

Answer 7

tell them it is better to be upfront and honest then to drag it out not telling them is doing yourself and them a diservice