my hubby is coming back after 4yrs. would like to know if im not going to feel pain and discomfort? all i want is to satisfied both of us. what shoul i do?
2006-08-15 00:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by glam 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
That all depends on his and your size. My husband is in the military, and he is overseas right now. when he came home for his vacation, it hurt like hell, and it took three tries before we could finish. But here is why it was hard for us. Imagine an ear peircing. as long as there is an earing in it, the hole stays, but if you leave your earrings out, the hole gets smaller. Well, lets just say i put nothing in my hole while he was gone, and hes a big guy. (there had always been pain with him, but it increaed when i shrunk). So your qustion can't really be answered without details. The pain will depend on how long or how wide he is. the longer or wider, the more pain. There is something you can do to get ready, though, if your worried. I was giving some unwanted advice that had some logic in it. Get a dildo a little smaller in size than your husband, and use it in the week or two before he comes home, so that when he is home you'll be ready, and you can get down to business.
2006-08-15 01:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by NJN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u might feel just a little discomfort or pain at first thats all
2006-08-15 01:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before when my husband was working abroad, we only have sex once a year when he comes home and i don't feel any pain. I think that sex is even more exciting if you haven't done it for a long time, believe me honey.
2006-08-15 00:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, you can't lie to him. He loves you enough to come back to you, you should tell him the truth.
2006-08-15 08:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by tennis star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that"s easy come find me and i teach u the rest
2006-08-15 01:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just enjoy, enjoy, and enjoy some more????!!!! Have fun!!!! It will probably feel like your first time.
2006-08-15 00:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it if you wanna
2006-08-15 02:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by HELP ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋