5 years ago i had a realationship that was great the guy got into trouble and went to jail for 5 years no he is out,but for about 3 years now ive been with someone else and got married.Now im torn It just doesnt feel the same at home since he has been around, i get treated like gold by my husband but if i left it would hurt everyone, even my children,but i want to be happy also. What shall I do?
2006-08-15 00:37:22 · 13 answers · asked by thicky t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If i were you i will keep my marriedge. think for your kids happiness and good than yours.
Good Luck
2006-08-15 00:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, i'm with ya. But i believe I am going to take everyone else's advice and stay. If you have had a happy marriage for the last 3 years, you just gotta forget about this other guy. I mean, he's been in jail. It doesn't matter what for, that's never good for children. Find all of the good assets of your husband and dwell on them. You'll find your happiness. This is just going to take a little time. Please don't give up hope!!
2006-08-15 00:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by angel23amy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your husband. If you wanted the other guy you should not have gotten married. Look hard at the meaning of con artist and most men from prison are just that. You are being conned by this man from prison. Most likely he has a felony of some sort so wan't be able to get a job.
And to LOTHARIO: where is that language going to get you? Instead of trying to understand where a woman is coming from you just want to call them names. You are a sick man and need to grow up!!!!
2006-08-15 01:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and relationships are not all about excitement. Your old feelings returning are just that, old feelings. Get ahold of yourself! If you need some excitement in your life, go skydiving! But keep the ex as an ex!
2006-08-15 00:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to sat down and think who make you happy and what each man want in life and what in the future for the kids you can't leave them out.Make sure you talk to each one of your men and see what they want in the future and go for the one you know you will be happy with then make sure you let the one you going to be with that it will only be him and not the other one.
2006-08-15 01:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't just about you. You have a husband and kids to think about. If your hubby is good to you stay with him and quit yerning over this jailbird ex of yours.
2006-08-15 01:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it sorted out asap if not all the 3 of u will get hurt
2006-08-15 00:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok I have no answer for this one because i am in the same boat and the only thing i know to do is live with it the way you are and when i figure out what to do ill let you know and if you figure it out please clue me in also.
2006-08-15 00:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by blueyedattitiude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stick with your husband and forget about the loser.
2006-08-15 00:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop the two of them, mmmmmm that will be comfortable
2006-08-15 01:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋