I hate my wifes mother because she was careless and did not learn her daughter how to be house wife?

Answer 1

I've looked at your past questions and you actually have serious issues, it's not funny. You don't sound happy in your marriage. You really need to go and see a counsellor. Honestly, they will help. You can talk about anything with them so you can stop asking all these very personal questions on a very open website

Answer 2

If you hate your "wifes"-(wife's)mother because she did not "learn" (teach)her daughter how to be (a)house wife(housewife),you do not have a very good start to your marraige!Your attitude and particularly your use of the English language IS going to lead you into a whole lot of trouble!
I am sorry to tell you,you are going to need a lot of help!
I assume you're religious,check what your religion states about "hate"....soon!
I wish you luck,you're going to need it!

Answer 3

HATE is a bit of a harsh word to be using &
if you think you wife is lacking in being a good house wife
then show her how to be a good one
teach her how to do things, cook , clean whatever......
I was not the best cook when my husband & I first got married, but he taught me how to cook the food(s)
the way he likes it & now he thinks I'm a great cook
so give your wife a hand & I'm sure she will be
more willing to do things too.
good luck

Answer 4

oh no, did she teach her how to be an independent career woman instead???? How dare she.
What exactly are you moaning about? Is it that she can't cook, or can't clean...something that you aren't capable of yourself?

I notice you said wife. This to me implies that you would have had to have spent time with her while you were dating, so you would have known what she was capable of before marrying, and if you didn't know about her strengths and and weaknesses at home, why did you marry her.
Sorry, but I think that you shouldn't be moaning about this, you had plenty of time to work out what she could do.
So you can either do things yourself or, actually that's it.
Do things yourself.

Answer 5

Well well, aren't you a catch!!

Wake up man!! This is the 21 century, she does not have to be your maid. Anything she does, is because she loves you and wants to do something for you - but the moment you start expecting her to "be a good housewife".... forget it jerk!!

Get a grip and treat her like a queen, maybe she will return the favour and do something you would appreciate.

You men are all the same....

Answer 6

I happen to be one of those wives whose mom didn't teach her how to care for her household. You know what helped me learn (my mom died when I was 17) to keep my house straight? My husband's kindness and understanding. He came alongside me and helped me with keeping things going. I wasn't a good cook, didn't know about laundry, and had never changed a vacuum bag. But he helped me through my ignorance, showing me and working right alongside of me. He never put me down, or called me a dumbbunny, but encouraged me when I failed and praised me when I got it right. So, instead of complaining about your mother-in-law, help your wife be the best wife she can be. If your mother "learned" you how to be a good husband, it's the least you can do. You'll both be happier for it. <*)))><

Answer 7

huh, most women these days do not want to be housewives, they days are over when you can come home to your wife having everything ready for you, its called sharing the responsibilities in the household, if you want a wife that does everything in the household like you are lord and master, you picked the wrong decade

Answer 8

your hate is not the solution. Forget your wife's mother and concentrate on your wife. This you only who can help her to be good housewife.

Answer 9

then why did you marry your wife???
why didnt you talk about household chores and taking care of the house???

try to be patient with her then, and show step by step how to do something, but dont be mean about it or make her think she is dumb because she dont know how to do these things. or maybe she chooses not to do them.
BEING PATIENT IS THE KEY HERE.

My husband of 16yr, his mom never taught him to do his own things(like cooking for himself and doing his own wash and grocery shop)
he always had his sisters or mom do these things

and i hate moms that dont teach their sons to appreciate women and do things for themselves.

just like when men beat and control their wives and girlfriends, because their moms or dads didnt teach them how to appreciate women.

Answer 10

So many wrong ideas man, its 2006 try to change some of your old fashion ideas please
by the way English is a very nice language and you r giving it a bad picture