Ladies, what did you tell your husband (just being HONEST) that made him mad?

Question

I told my husband (he always complains about my daughter's messy room... even when its clean...gheesh) that if I spent half the time cleaning up after her that I do picking up after him that she'd have the town's neatest room. Yeah, he didn't like me after that one, but it was very true.
Also, I told him he was a shopaholic with a plastic addiction and to that one he recovered rather nicely! I'm just wondering what you said to your husband when the truth just HAD to come out. And did it help... or hurt?

SIngles, please feel free to share about your boyfriend or fiance, too.

No disrespect, fellas.

Answer 1

When I get home from work every 5 minutes she used to smell my kili-kili (arm pits) . . .

She loved how I smelled because after that she tells me that I stink and then she kisses me squeezing my a**.

Answer 2

I told him he was a deceitful SOB and he is lacking a sensitivity chip ( I stole that one from Jen about Brad). He is handicapped in the communication department and that one really made him mad. He seems to think that when I ask a simple question that I am mad at him. OH BTW! We moved in together and then I found out he is still married. He just now after 2 years filed for divorce.

Answer 3

I told mine his hidden files, pics etc. were not so hidden.
I caught him shrinking the screen a few times when I'd walk into the room. I am a firm believer that if you have nothing to hide, you hide nothing.. So i went looking.
I asked him some simply questions in a calm manner since we had been very open with our ideas about marriage and our needs etc. likes and dislikes.Simple questions to which he lied.
I emailed him some things that I had sent me from from his hidden files.He was angry but not enough to confront me.I was supposed to be computer illiterate. He kept me on my toes. He'd put up new software and I'd search ways to get around it.One needs to be careful of what one really needs to know. Wish I had not looked.

Answer 4

I will give you a good one...about 13 years ago I met a guy at a bar, we got drunk, had sex and we never saw each again. I was dating my husband and met his brother for the first time at a function, and I thought to myself "oh my ******* god, it's that guy I had the one night stand with". As my husband and I were making our wedding plans he wanted the brother to be best man and I said no and he couldn't understand why. I then told him the reason. My husband was pissed. But it was no reason to get upset with me and he knows that. It was before I had met him. We don't have much communication with the brother due to the fact that he may put 2 plus 2 together.

Answer 5

I've done the same thing. I'm getting married in two months and we have a daughter. And one day I was at work and I came home and house was dirty more than it was before I went to work. I was so upset and I told him and he started to get mad. So hnow he has thing where he doesnt have to clean up all he has to is work. And that drives me nuts.

Answer 6

Gosh, I've said WAY TOO MUCH to my poor husband!
He tends to be a bit messy, too. clothes left everywhere. Whiskers in the sink. You name it.
I get after him about lots of stuff. I really should quit cuz I'm just being the bossy ol' nag!

But, I have said that I think his father is one of the dumbest and most unwise people I have EVER met in my life and to PLEASE not have so much communication with him or he'd rub off on him!!
lol
I think it's funny, but needless to say it offended my hubby. He's slowly getting it (thank goodness!)

Answer 7

i do no longer comprehend how they might different than they are egocentric and insecure. Mine became into specially emotional for years being neglected different than for intercourse and positioned downs. some situations actual(he blames on ingesting) different than hitting that harm emotionally. i did no longer comprehend the indications jointly as relationship yet some have been there. He would positioned me down or my kin and became into very needy telling me he enjoyed me good away. He additionally has been what I evaluate abusive in direction of the youngsters with forced tickling whilst they stated stop and relys on them for emotional help. they are very youthful and this is probably not abusive notwithstanding it hurts them emotionally to be sure their dad so susceptible.

Answer 8

i told my husband one time that I was tired of him using his diabetes as an excuse to keep a bad attitude. (Diabetes runs in my family, and I know all about it, I grew up around it and its really not surprising that I married a diabetic, and he's no worse than they are) But one day, I was trying to talk to him about the grocery list and he was just kind of grouchy (mostly because he just wanted to watch television or was it something on the computer...dont remember but he was doing one of the two) and he just was all snippy snotty, and I asked him what his problem was and then we got into it major, and finally i looked at him and said that he needed a major attitued adjustment, and that he needed not keep blaming his moods on his diabetes, and oddly enough, he has'nt been moody since after he got really mad about me saying it.

Answer 9

I told him that I had a problem with him not going to see a doctor about his ED and that its been hard for me cuz we havent had sex in 2 and 1/2 years...I told him that I was hurting cuz I think that he just doesnt care....he got so mad at me and told me that I dont understand what its like to be a man with ED and I told him he doesnt know what its like to be a woman with a man who has ED...I know he can do something about it but he is just to embarassed to go see a doc...

Answer 10

i am an man and don't have a g/f but i would think if my wife/g/f told me The Truth i wouldn't be upset did u tell him when u all was arguing or did u tell him that in a nice way.
the tone of ur voice matters