I am 18, going to be 19 in a few months.
My Flaws Are:
1) My height is only 63 inches.
2) I have vitiligo ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vitiligo ).
3) I have a constant need for physical contact.
4) I act, most of the time, like I have had too much sweets, even though I rarely have any at all.
5) If not acting like I have had too much sweets, I am way too serious...
2006-08-13 23:36:16 · 33 answers · asked by Aaron 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm Sure One Day You'll Find Someone Who's Right For You.
Until Then Just Keep Living You're Life.
2006-08-13 23:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by alyssa! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always someone for everyone out there, you're only 19 so don't rush things.
Your height will prove an asset to you.
Lots of people have this and it does not affect whether they find a significant other or not.
You need this because you lack it now.
There are pills for this, go see your GP.
This is the down side of the previous thing.
I wish you all the best and hope that things turn around soon for you, unitl then be the best that you can and live happy. Your mental outlook has a lot to do with how others see you.
2006-08-17 22:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you can be both fun, but serious and caring, these are good traits to have. You haven't mentioned what your positive points are, maybe you should think about these and try to make the most of them. Its an old cliche, but people see you the way you see yourself, so if you think too badly of yourself it will come through.
Maybe 18 is a bit young to be in a serious relationship, get out there and have some fun. While you're out there having fun I bet you anything you will meet the man of your dreams, you're not going to find him sitting indoors moping about your flaws.
Good luck!!
2006-08-14 02:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.No matter what your condition is,there is someone out there for you.Stop trying to find them.It will happen in it's own time.You try to hard to be with someone,you may come up on the wrong person for you.Be patient,your still young.With the exception of 1,2,and 3,I and a lot of other people have those same flaws.Think about it like this,there are a lot of people who are worse off than you think you are.But there (belief in God) and (themselves),there (positive attitude) keeps them from worrying about what the future holds for them.Your just as normal as anyone else,and don't let anyone tell you different.
2006-08-14 01:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that by listing your flaws instead of your attractive qualities shows your self esteem is low ,Looks,height etc are not necessairly important if you want a relationship personality ,humor ,honesty and trust are the basis for a solid partnership .My granmother used to say that when you are old and grey you dont want somebody who used to be beutiful you want someone that can hold your hand and make you laugh ,the mind stays sharper than the body as we grow older .You should work on your confidence issues .People pass through our lives when we least expect it so dont worry .
2006-08-16 23:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by shinners 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. You shouldnt think about your flaws. Stop being so morbid and think about the good things that are going on in your life now. In other words "Live in the moment". Why are you listening those as flaws? Loads of people dont like tall people. Others like having there boyfriends be clingy (like me). Plus i think you being hyper is realy cute. If you dont then have you ever thought of the possibility of ADHD?
Serious looking guys are sexy most of time. Your "flaws" may be someone elses dream gualities in another man. Good luck, okay?
2006-08-14 00:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by sined 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are your medical issues being properly cared for? You're going to meet a lot of people in your life. Be honest with those who you want to know better. No one can promise you a special person. The most important thing is to take care of yourself, so that when you do meet someone special, you'll be OK. Good Luck
2006-08-16 20:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone, you still have plenty of time. Maybe you should try going out to gay pubs etc. Don't worry about your flaws, remember we all have our own flaws like or not, nobody is perfect. Just hang in there, wish you the best.
2006-08-16 22:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by megan a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your good points and never go out looking for 'the one' you never seem to find if your looking to hard. You have plenty of time to find that special someone. As for your points 3,4 and 5 try to combat those with counselling or some self help, concentrate on yourself for a while.
2006-08-14 00:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll have you know that vitiligo is one of my fetishes. I think it's an amazing uniqueness that I wish I could have...and I have been romantic with one guy who had vitiligo and I'll never forget him. Randy Jennings. :)
there's someone for everyone, i say. you just have to believe it.
2006-08-14 12:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Vancouver-snuggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋