Im 15 and im pregnant.How do i tell my mum???

Answer 1

You sit her down and just tell her. Not much can be done now the worst has happened. Just to let you know all things will change for you I was 21 and still wish I would have waited. Good Luck

Answer 2

I was 16 when I became pregnant and didn't tell anyone until I was almost 6 months along it was the hardest time of my life having to hide it . I thought the hardest time I would have would be revealing it to everyone but it turned out to be one of the best nothing feels worse than hiding it I'm sure you know this by now don't be like me I felt so far gone I didn't see a way back out I made a plan to run away just so I wouldnt have to face her and when I finally told her she hugged me and told me whatever my decision she would be there every step of the way and she was my only regret of my pregnancy was not telling someone sooner so I could enjoy my time preparing as a mother . Talk to her when you are alone of course tell her straight out and honestly no apologies needed she knows you didn't do it on purpose tell her how important it is for her to support you, she will always love you and you will feel so releived when you tell her it will only get better for you . For me it was the first time in my life I felt truly bonded with my mother . You're gonna make it you'll figure this out have faith in yourself you're gonna be a great mother if that's what you decide . I lived by these sayings when I was in your place sometimes they were the only thing that got me through the day "This too shall pass " & " what doesn't kill you makes you stronger " they are simple old sayings but they have allot of meaning when you have no other source of comfort . If you need someone to talk to for anything please email me [e-mail] I wish you all the best in this world I know you're gonna be alright . Never let anyone make you feel ashamed of being pregnant it is a gift from God!!!
By the way I am now 23 and have a beautiful 6 year old boy and a 2 year old they are my life and I would die without them. I didn't think I would make a good mom but you know what my boys think I am . please email me if you need someone to talk to or a little advice from a young mother

Answer 3

from personal experience tell her straight away you are gonna need all the support she and ur family can offer you , the worst thing u could do is bottle this up it isnt just gonna go away. I know the public opinion of teenage parents is largely that they are scummy chavs who sponge of the government nut i am living proof that this need not be the case . My girlfriend got pregnant at 16 and i was15 and we thought it was the end of the world and we didnt tell our parents until she was 6 months pregnant which was a massive mistake as both sets of parents were hurt, dissapointed and angry that we didnt tell them sooner. The pressure put on us from friends and family when it became common knowledge was a nightmare and for the remaining months of the pregnancy life was tough to say the least ,but however we stuck together and when the baby was born all the atmosphere and anger went away and both families grew closer together for the baby's sake. That was nearly nine years ago and our son now has 2 baby brothers and we own our house ,2 cars etc, and we both have good jobs so not all teenage pregnancies end up with single mums on the dole and if u make a go of things with the father and you get all the support you can from both families things will work out
good luck and dont fret to much about telling your mum , of course at first she may be angry and disapointed but if you want the baby she will love it as much as u will . Also if you decied you do not want to keep the baby DO NOT let anyone pressure you into keeping it as it is ur decision to make ,its ur body and your future so think long and hard about what is best for you
Again, good luck x

Answer 4

As silly as this may sound, make sure she's sitting down, has already eaten dinner, and is in a good mood. If nothing else, make sure she has eaten dinner.

If you approach her while she's tired, crainky, and has just come home from work, that will really bother her. At least give her time to have a decent meal.

If you tell her after she comes home but before she eats dinner, she may not eat. So if she's in a cranky mood and too riled up to eat, she'll get a headache, which will aggravate her mood.

You don't want to tell her in the morning before she goes to work because she may be bothered by it that she'll be thinking about it the entire day. Worse yet if she's distracted while driving.

At least if you tell her at night, she'll have time to mull it over in worst case scenario.or sleep on it.

I don't know how understanding your mother is, whom the fatheris, or what not, but that's what I'd recommend.

Answer 5

There is no short cut on this one a baby is a baby and there is no changing that. If it makes you feel any better when my mother and I had this conversation they were the hardest words out of my mouth. Once said my mum became the most supportive person, more supportive than she had ever been in my entire life. She did make me be the one to tell my dad though. She said it was my baby and now I had to rock it.
For the record she was just as supportive when I lost that baby and I don't think i would have made it without her.

Answer 6

Tell her as soon as possible. Don't wait.

She won't go mad. She might be disappointed. But she'll help and support you in making the right decision as to whether you're really ready to have a baby.

15 is really young, and be sure you can cope with the huge responsibility and sacrifice. You will lose alot of freedom and friends.

And are you with the father?

Think things through, but tell your mum asap.

Answer 7

Hug...

Unlike all the others more wise I ask what is your mum actually like?

Ie if she is overtly relgious especilly christians or islamic you may have more trouble telling her and better off getting an abortion pill asap...


Ie not a god fearing very strict relgious nut. ASAP.

Getting her on here own when not busy and saying mum Im in trouble, my period is late... And Ive taken the test.

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Dont let the pro life lot fill you with guilt about murdering babies... Its not a baby inside you... Babies have feelings memories do things, what you ahve inside you is a blob of cells.

Its not a person, it has no feelings, and adoption is not in your or a future babies interests as often as a teenager it will get very messed up and many adopted or kids in homes are horribly abused often by the pro life anti abortion lot...


They say they care but these are the ones spitting at single mums calling them dole scronging whore (which you are not) and calling the kid a bastard as they are mad.

This is what the dont get an abortion don't kill a baby relgious types are really all about

'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdalen.html
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.html
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/drama/sinners/interviews/annemarie.shtml
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/SEX-IN-A-COLD-CLIMATE-DVD-DOCUMENTRY-REG-0_W0QQitemZ6437066430QQcategoryZ617QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3180406.stm
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressreleases/stories/2003/10_october/09/panorama_holy_city.shtml
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3147672.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3180174.stm


See all the links...

And hug you are not immoral, bad, a hokker, **** or anything...

You are just a girl who like all girls needed affection and someoen to feel close to which you did and messed up as a begineer most likely as the grown ups let you down with a lack of sex ed and support in early realtionships... it was their job to see you were on the pill as they should have known better.

You were the rookie.


So hug hug


And wish you the best and see those links...

Seriously if your mum is not the type that would side with those nuns and imprision you then ask her for help thats what mums are there for

Answer 8

I would set aside some mother and daughter time and have no interutions. I would tell her that you were pregnant and that you are happy for yourself and that you really need her support and be very serious about the whole sitution. If your mother is really a mother to you she should not get mad at you or hate you because you got pregnant at a young age. And if your mother loves you she will be there for you.

Answer 9

okay i was in that position too 14 years ago and your parents will be upset at first but in time they will learn that it happened there isnt anything that change it now and there are a lot of options.....there is a reason u are having a baby...i now have 4 kids and i dont ever regret having my first one at 15 its young yes but you will get through it no matter what people will say things but let them its not there body its yours and you need to have your mom there with you no matter what your relationship is with her...that is your mom and she will never leave her child as you wouldnt yours...good luck and tell her its for the best

Answer 10

if you are a virgin asking about using tampons how can you be pregnant? its not something to joke about i was 15 when i fell pregnant my daughter is now 10 yrs old, it is hard work, if you are being serious then ask your mum for a quiet word then break it gently, my mum was amazing she shouted at me told me she hadn't brought me up that way,but she was there for me,if you've done it to rebel then believe me you've done the wrong thing,i'm still with the same bloke with another 3 kids and no its not an easy ride,