2006-08-13 22:12:59 · 24 answers · asked by myothernewname 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, because you had your heart set on that fish and you thought you had already done the work to catch that fish. But now, thinking of the prospect of having to go fishing all over again, you are frustrated. It's natural to wonder if any other fish will "take the bait." It will be okay. You don't have to go fishing right away. Take a break and go golfing for a while. You'll fish again when you are ready.
2006-08-13 22:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Rvn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Simple. This is what you should do. First go get a bait and catch the fish. Then, you put the fish into the aquarium. Try breeding it. One fine day, you found out that the fish is gone and a cat has ate it. What will that feeling be? Exactly the same like losing somebody that you have loved for so long. The time that you have spend seems to be gone in a single blink!! You just cannot accept the fact in the end of the day.
However, life goes on. Past is just another remembrance. There are still many fishes around the sea. Do remember that...
2006-08-14 08:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by FrentZen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes it does hurt to lose one fish, just because your mind is tricked into thinking that that one was a special one and you may never find another fish like the one you just lost, either way it's OK, just remember not to take the fish for granted.
2006-08-14 05:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are so many humans in this world. Why does it hurt so much to lose just one?
Cos each life is precious. Heard of the story where someone said how many starfishes can one save? It made a difference to the one that was thrown back into sea.
2006-08-14 05:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always hurts to lose someone, or even some "thing".
And the reason is your own selfishness.
Now before you jump all over me for that let me explain.
You are not sad because that someone is doing something else. You are sad because that someone is doing something else WITHOUT YOU.
And that is where the selfishness comes in to play.
When you thought you were together that person could have been gone for a week and you would not feel this way but now gone for good you are saddened.
It's all because YOU DON'T HAVE them anymore...
I hope you understand what I am saying.
Jerry
2006-08-14 06:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fishes of the same scales swim together. but what is more difficult is to find is a fish with the same brain. that's why it's difficult to let go. the sea contains most of the lifeforms. many are unidentified yet. do you see the complexity of things? because that one fish that we are looking for is so damn difficult to find. and when you do find it, its more difficult to let go because you're not sure to find one just like it.
but hey, "give a man a fish and he lives a day. teach a man how to fish, and he lives a lifetime." learn how to catch that particular fish. while you're looking for ms. right fish, be mr. right fish yourself, ok?
now this fish is swimming to find other questions to answer and having a crash course on mining!
2006-08-14 08:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by abstemious_entity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz all the fish in the sea isn't urs.but u feel bad to lose the one called urs!
2006-08-14 05:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the fish family will lose 1 of its family member
2006-08-14 05:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcoz you have to search a vast ocean first for you to catch
that single fish and it would take ten kilos of bait, 100 pcs hook,
50 liters of gasoline and a decades in the ocean under a burning
sun.
That's really gonna hurt.........
In short let him/her go, He/She stinks anyway!
2006-08-14 05:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there are many people in this world too, do you think it hurts your parents to lose you? Think bout it. Fishes are living thing too.
2006-08-14 05:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by spray_kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋