I just went through a major twist in my life whereby my girlfriend of 2 years 2 mths broke off with me some 5 weeks ago for the third time. I went through a really terrible rough time and went through lots of depression. But somehow ihave this very strong intuition she will come back to me one day ( i am not sure when) but the thing is that i don't even noe if i can trust this intuition. Many couples when they break up , the victim WISHES for the victimiser to return. But for my case it isn't so much of wishing but i just know she will return and of course i hope that is true. Any advices? ( btw for your information , the past 2 times we patched back successfully was due to my effort. so could it be because of my past 2 times success is leading to me thinking that the third time i could succeed again?) the gut feeling is really very strong
2006-08-13 22:10:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
even if she comes back she is not worthy of ur love.. i think u shud move ahead.. u deserve a far better girl.. how can u let someone leave u all the time.. this time u surely need to show her tht u can live better without such a person who doesnt care for ur love.. move ahead. best of luck for ur future.. u'll surely get a gal who'll love u and respect ur feelings..
2006-08-13 22:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your ex have dated for only two years and broke up three times already i think your not seeing the forest for the trees,meaning one or both of you are not seeing the big picture.You or her may just be in it for the sex \ security but it wont last,move on a find someone you can live the rest of your life with,not someone to be with right now.Good luck.
2006-08-13 22:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having to do all the work in patching up a relationship because of her breaking up with you, then I'd find another girl while waiting for her to come back. Make her jealous and she might realize what she lost then you got two women competing for you, which can have its benefits.
2006-08-13 22:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kinda rough but you need this....now what she is doing is seeing other guys....i mean 2 timing you....now she is one of those desperate kinds who only wants gifts and lots of money to spend on malls....so whenever she thinks that this is the guy for her she gives her middle finger...but the other guy gets her laid has a good time then dumps her...so what happens...she is back to you...i dont believe you let her do it to you for 3 times....
There is an old saying -
At first - its not your fault
Second - Its your fault
Third - You are a dick head
So decide boy..girls are like buses....one goes the other arrives
2006-08-13 22:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Myles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three seperations in two years? I think she has a habit of getting cross over something and just walking off! Which means she is not mature enough.If she really loves you, she will come back with a little gree signal from you. By this time, you should have known how to handle her and please do the same. Bowing down a little to get your girl back is not inferior!!!
2006-08-13 22:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gut feeling tells me you are very young and this is a very one sided love affair. Quit the relationship now. Is she really that good? A love relationship is two way traffic not one. Think about long term and how are you going to continue giving way all the time.
2006-08-13 22:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to beg her to come back its not wqorth it youve tried its the best you can do obviously your not meant to be a couple. do you want to go thru life splitting up getting back together, move on with your life out with the old in with the new. if you were meant to be together you wouldnt have to try and keep the relation ship going it would happen naturally due to you both wanting it.
2006-08-13 22:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wee, move on. the relationship is not working for both of you. that's your macho instinct talking when you say you have the feeling that she will come back. even if she does, the same thing will happen again, the two of you will break up again. haven't you thought of the basic reason why it has become a cycle? maybe, she isn't satisfied anymore. let her go. move on :)
2006-08-13 22:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a waste of 2 points, yet I dunno why I'm compelled to answer this one. Forget about your intuition, what's important is the "now". Give her a break and do yourself a favor... move on. That "someday" you're talking about may come, but what if you're married to another woman already or vice versa? It will be unfair to your partners. So just forget about your intuition, ok?
2006-08-13 22:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 12:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by deklerk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋