I can't stop thinking about them and the more i hate the more crappy i feel. is there a way to stop feeling like this towards them?
2006-08-13 21:56:47 · 13 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Emanicipate yourself from mental slavery. NONE BUT YOURSELF can free your mind. No one can make you angry or sad, unless YOU allowed them to.
Why hurt yourself - you think about them, you felt crappy and hatred WHILE life goes on for them!
Let go of the feeling, forgive and forget. You got your life to live! Why not choose to live happy? :-)
2006-08-13 22:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "them" I assume you hate more than one person.But it dosen't really matter now. First you msut try to get rid of the hatred feeling. This is done because you love yourself. Bad feelinsg will hurt you in the long run.
When you love yourself, you will protect yourself by getting rid of all negative feelings in your life. Not easy. But when you start with one the others will become easier.
I assume the people you "hate" must have done some wrong to you. When that is so, you must learn to forgive them. In some cases , you may have a part in the game. You must accept that you can and will take 50% of the blame. When you can accept that, half your journey is complete.
Then you will think about these people, and learn to accept that people are not perfect....at least not like you, and you will , and may think that you are better being than the subjects in your life.
To cut the story short, learn to forgive them. And when you completely satisfied with how you are going to forgive the person/s, you can make the step/s to go straight to that person or persons, tell them how you feklt abnout them and , tell them straight into their eyes that you forgive them.
Go home and wait for your life to change for the better.
Hope you will have a better day today. And make yourself a good day......it's really our choice anyway!
hogamat
2006-08-13 22:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by hogamat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hate is a very strong word. The only way to overcome that feeling is stop thinking about them. Try in your heart to find forgiveness and pray to God asking him to give you the courrage to forgive them.
Just think that we are living now and the next minute we will be gone from this life for ever. So what's the point of hating when we all have a heart to love.
2006-08-13 22:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing what you need to forgive, my advice is this... you need closure if you are ever gonna let go of this hatred. You need to look inside yourself and talk to the person in question. It may or may not get resolved, but one way or another, you need to bring closure to this. I'm so sorry that you feel this way and I hope you get some resolution.
2006-08-13 22:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by DJ Scottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop hating them. Hang on to your grudges! Your hate is powerful, it gives you focus, it makes you stronger! Letting go of hatred leads to making mistakes and leads to a repetition of guilt then sorrow then hate, so just skip straight to hate and hold onto your convictions about others.
2006-08-13 22:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many people hate you or feel crappy about you when they think of you..??
2006-08-13 22:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Myles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of beautiful feelings exept hating! think about those feelings and people who can make u feel better! dont think about those who are hated by u!
2006-08-13 22:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it coll, my dear - or you'll gonna ruin it all! Keeping the grudge within you would destroy no one else but you... Besides, why waste your precious energy for them - Move on with your life, instead!
2006-08-13 23:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray to God every moment that you want to be a passionate person. keep telling yourself "be patient, be patient". the mantra will help your system to automatically not to hate person.
2006-08-13 22:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by shanghai68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋